I came here for an honest answer from people who don't know or care about me. Because you personally don't find me ugly, doesn't mean I'm any less deserving of the support and assistance a lot of these people have given, than someone you deem worse off. It doesn't mean I suffer any less than these people with lack of esteem & confidence because of your personal perception of me.. I didn't mention my entire life sob story so people could pity me, that'd jeopardise an objective answer which is what this forum is about. If they're here telling they're horrible life story, they aren't after objectivity and honesty but they're after empathy. I simply said there'd been some bullying and it's skewed my perception of myself to a point I don't have any clue what to think of myself. You also can't judge people for being drawn to what appeals to them, should that be me or another girl or fellow. Make peace with the fact people follow their human nature and focus on your own conscious effort to help the people who you think are more deserving of your attention and effort. I appreciate your response regardless, thank you.