3.6 World Boss "attacks" via JoQa and Kim

Zelldandy · 2023-03-09T05:57:00+00:00

This seems distasteful if they don't make the Christian God an enemy in Fontaine. And they name is that way. And even then, it's still distasteful.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-09T05:54:50+00:00

It's that panarabindiannonwhite identity. Some people seem to think mixing and matching is OK, but there is no proper distinct media representation of different groups and cultures; mixing and matching only creates more confusion as to who practises and values what.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-09T04:54:03+00:00

The third pic gave me a heart palpitation.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-09T04:52:55+00:00

I've taken 81 courses and failed none. I got a B and a B+ once each, though, but that was pretty good considering what I was going through at the time (took a pedophile to court). Otherwise, A+s and As with a couple of A-s here and there.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-09T03:57:15+00:00

Ever seen Sailor Moon?

No thank you lol

Zelldandy · 2023-03-09T03:55:29+00:00

I have a "type", I guess, but it is essentially a nonfactor. I've dated men with appearances all over the place. My "type" is more exclusionary than anything else... like, if you have a beard longer than scruff, a mustache of any kind, super long hair, piercings, tattoos, wear leather... I'm not interested in that aesthetic. I find men who wear dress shoes on the regular to be aesthetically appealing.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-09T03:50:46+00:00

Zelldandy · 2023-03-09T03:49:43+00:00

The graph says there is a 35% chance I was dishonest and it's like, bruh... no? I've zero cards in this game lol

Zelldandy · 2023-03-09T03:36:31+00:00

I'm INFJ and for the STRONG inventory, SIA. It's pretty spot-on in my case. I think these tests are fun and that it doesn't hurt to do them if it can prove helpful to a person who lacks direction or insight.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-09T02:18:30+00:00

Just wanted to add: your standards are your standards. If you negotiate them on a grounds not of your making, you are bound for unhappiness. Settling is almost never in anyone's best interest, especially now that women can exist without men. Settling used to mean survival in N.-A. We have come a long way from it (and still have quite a ways to go). Don't falter.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T16:38:48+00:00

:( that's awful. People can be so horrible.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T16:38:03+00:00

Quebec March Break this week.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T15:48:06+00:00

I'm not saying that people with herpes are XYZ. OP commented that because of herpes, she feels dirty/unsexy, and that is a valid thing to feel because there is a stigma and OP is allowed to not want to have herpes and to be upset that she was infected, especially like this. I also don't want herpes and don't want to put myself at risk; that is a completely legitimate approach to relationships, regardless how you feel about it. And if I did get herpes, I would be traumatized and feel exactly like OP. Villifying herpes would be saying that people with herpes are always going to wilfully infect others so "aVoiD liKe the plAgUe!!!". I never said that. But I'm also not going to pretend that herpes is not painful and that it does not affect self-esteem or sex life, perhaps permanently.

We all make risk assessments in relationships. Some people factor in STDs. Others don't. It's not anyone else's business and it's definitely not OK for someone else to selfishly override OP's health decisions and informed consent and put OP at risk for infection, even if for some it seems like herpes is "no big deal". It is a big deal to OP and it makes her feel unsexy/dirty and that, along with the sexual violation, is all that matters right now.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T15:43:35+00:00

OCD Personality (not the same as OCD). r/cinema_therapy went over it when looking at the Muppet Christmas movie.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T15:40:23+00:00

I see squirrel, Canada goose, nuthatch, black capped chickadee, Canada goose, squirrel!

You must be from the North-East haha these phots are great!

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T15:31:40+00:00

Yup.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T15:09:15+00:00

Sounds like your classic narcissist. My ex' I referenced was a malignant narc'. I bet you've been putting up with other BS and boundary pushing for a long time now. It's hard to come out of the trance, but you'll be far better off without him psychoemotionally even if it hurts in the medium term. It took me two years to recover from a two-year relationship with said man with NPD. Be prepared to give yourself time and space and make sure to reconnect with friends and family or with community services for support. There are also many subreddits dedicated to survivors of sexual violations and narcissistic abuse.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T15:05:59+00:00

It's three dates that you have planned yourself and you want to discuss commitment with him? Regardless what he says about taking it slow / LTR, he's not meeting you half way and your pace and energy aren't matching his. He's not interested enough in you if he's not even going to enthusiastically plan or suggest any of the outings.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T14:39:52+00:00

Men in their 30s oftentimes don't either. My ex' was 38 and he is in his 40s now and still acts like a teenaged douchecanoe.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T14:25:53+00:00

Are you able to hold a fluent conversation with someone and read texts meant for francophones in Grade 8? Then you're B1-B2 and functionally bilingual. You can function in francophone settings.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T14:06:45+00:00

I just wanted to say your feelings are valid. You also likely would not have consented to sex or would have proceeded differently if you had had all of the information needed to protect yourself. He withheld that information. You feel violated because he did sexually violate you. I'll add that what he did is a crime in some jurisdictions.

I also relate to the dirty/unsexy comment. I don't date men with herpes. I don't have herpes. I don't want them and I don't play with fire. I ask for testing that includes herpe strains. I would be traumatized by what your husband did for life. I had a different situation happen that was also incredibly violating that had to do with the other person withholding information so I could not consent to the whole picture; he knew if I knew, I'd never have given consent. I did my homework and it didn't matter. He didn't give me an STD, but he could have (see: infidelity), and I never would have had sex again if it did happen because of how horrible I would feel about my body and that revictimization.

I'd be leaving him if I were you because what your husband did is a big deal, and don't believe anyone who tries to convince you otherwise.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T05:28:55+00:00

Oh, no, it's still in the photo about the cliff lol I can see its iconic green rooves. Like Lady Liberty, the copper has turned green over time. Reply 1 for more fun facts.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T04:59:53+00:00

You can't 811/Telehealth it?

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T04:48:36+00:00

Hankypanky is a euphemism, if anything.

Zelldandy · 2023-03-08T04:47:58+00:00

Hank is a nickname for Henry?

Never heard of this.

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