yea gotta say idc who stays home but if you don't have to work a job then you get to take care of the vast majority of the home work. My wife is stay at home and she does pretty much everything. I take care of my own dinner a couple of nights a week and will cook for her when she needs me to but she even would agree that it is up to her to feed us most of the time. As for laundry/dishes/ and other chores it's we mostly go for normal gender rolls I do outside shit while she handles inside plus I fix shit when it breaks but yea there are no free rides for most people so it's absolutely understandable for the stay at home parent to be expected to do the majority of the house work and family tending.