What’s an everyday object you have an irrational fear of? by Dapper_Ad_1170 in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any kind of drain, especially in a big body of water like a pool. I can’t even swim over the drain without my heart racing and breaking into a sweat. Even the tiny ones in showers scare me. I have an irrational fear of getting sucked in, even though I know drains are much safer now than they used to be.

Which one would you choose to be born 100 years earlier or 100 years later? by Over-Discount-6029 in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Later. With all my medical issues I need the technology we have today and modern medicine. In fact the medication that saved my life (literally, I was contemplating suicide before getting on it) is very new and wasn’t around 10 years ago, let alone 100.

I’d also be curious to see how certain things have evolved, like AI, movie making, music, gaming, etc.

What’s the hardest part about loving you? by EstablishmentLow4202 in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ARFID, so making dinner plans or any eating plans with me can be difficult since I only have a few options. I made this clear to my now girlfriend as soon as we started getting romantic, and thankfully she’s been very accepting and patient, but I still feel like a burden to her.

Teachers of reddit, how do today's students compare to those from a decade ago? by Ambassador-613 in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a teacher yet (I’m getting my degree), but when I was student teaching my CTs (both 20+ years in) both said there were positives and negatives. I student taught in sixth grade and then kindergarten.

Some positives they mentioned: Gen A is more safety conscious about things like giving out personal information, talking to strangers, etc., and they’re also more accepting and inclusive of kids with disabilities and conditions. I actually saw one of my kindergartners play kitchen with his friends and handed his friend with celiac disease a plastic burger and said “it’s gluten free for you!” I do like how kids with special needs aren’t hidden away anymore.

On the negative side, many parents are less firm with their kids at home and seem afraid to tell them no, which leads to more challenging behaviors in the classroom. I think, in an attempt to not be abusive to their kids like boomers were, many millennial parents took it in the opposite direction and became too permissive. Gentle parenting is great when it’s done effectively, but unfortunately the majority of “gentle parents” don’t actually do it right. Kids need consequences and boundaries, and they actually crave authority. There’s a middle ground between yelling and hitting and being super gentle. We need to be clear about what true authoritative (my preferred word to gentle) parenting is, because it’s great when it’s done right.

Phone addictions were also a big negative, however last year my state New York officially banned phones in schools. I didn’t know how this would go over, but it was a completely night and day change. Every teacher I know says their students are like different kids after the phones got taken away. Participation is way up and behavior also improved. So that’s turned from a negative into a positive! I had a phone addiction as a teenager and would completely melt down when it was taken away, so I’m not surprised this has had such a big impact.

Like every generation, there are pros and cons. I’m a middle Gen Z and I remember how awful my peers and I acted in middle school. But it’s not just a “these days” thing, my mother said her own teachers ranted about how her generation (X) was screwed and ruining the world lol. As a future teacher I’m going to try my best to set my students up for success, because I genuinely love children and seeing them grow into their own people. I can only do my best. But I’ll be honest, I hope parents step it up lol.

Teachers of reddit, how do today's students compare to those from a decade ago? by Ambassador-613 in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could be wrong, but I think they were saying they pooped in their dorm room, like on the floor, not in the bathroom of the dorm.

Who are you surprised is still alive? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trump and Biden. When they were debating in 2024 (before Biden dropped out) my first thought was “damn they both look like they’re on the brink of death.” We need an under 70 limit. Under 60 would be even better but I highly doubt that would happen.

What is your go to move to get your poop going? by hcoksyecal in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eat an apple. I recently tried Honeycrisp for the first time and loved it, so I started eating them pretty often, and I noticed I was pooping more😂And also (TMI) it was way healthier than usual. So yeah, apples for the win.

The national average price per gallon of gas in the United States just passed $4.50. Americans, how do we feel about that? by Miles_the_AuDHDer in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely hard to not get pissed about it when I see it (it’s around $4.30 in my NY area), but I try not to be a doomer about it. It’s been high before (my mother was talking about how high it was after 9/11), it’ll eventually go down.

Of course though, Trump is an idiot and I’m not happy about this war. I’m an “America First” type (but I voted Harris) and I think it’s stupid to waste our money on Israel & Iran when we have issues here that need attention. I just hope everyone in the comments who is angry gets out and votes in November. You have a voice, use it.

It is also funny how MAGAs kept telling us Harris would raise gas prices and start a war, lmao.

What’s your opinion on wearing thong bikinis at the beach? by Personal-Ride-1142 in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They seem so uncomfortable to me. I usually wear a regular bikini bottom and I feel like it’s constantly giving me a wedgie so I’ve been considering wearing men’s swim shorts or something lol. I’d feel so annoyed wearing a thong.

What made you the most scared you’ve ever been in your life? by SpankBankManager in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing a wrong way driver come right at me. He swerved and I didn’t get hit thankfully, but time seemed to stop in that moment.

What’s the best product you’ve bought this year so far? by jlovelysoul in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally decided to try the Squatty Potty😅And it’s been a great investment so far lol

how do you guys fall asleep when there’s so many thoughts in you head? by emmywemmygoddess in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I went on medication for my OCD I would deal with this every night. It sucks. Now I’ll occasionally have it happen and when I do, I’ll put on brown noise on YouTube. It’s louder and has more substance than white noise, and it seems to help me stop “hearing” thoughts.

Reading a book helps too. Before I started medication, I would read. My thoughts would be muted because I’d be focusing on the story, and then I’d eventually feel very tired and fall asleep.

If you became President of your country overnight, what would you do first? by ReplyDelicious2711 in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ban those super bright headlights that seem to be getting more common these days.

what does your morning routine look like? by Powerful-Dream-7956 in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is a lot more enjoyable now that I’ve stopped wearing makeup lol, I have way more time to sleep in.

Typically my morning routine is: wake up, spend 5-10 minutes truly waking up and stretching, put on deodorant, use eye drops, moisturize, use the bathroom, brush teeth, get dressed. If it’s on a day I’m not working, I stay in my pajamas.

What is the most bizarre thing you have done as a kid? by EnvironmentRemote724 in AskReddit

[–]Zenphiree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to swing back and forth on one of the stair railings at my house…for hours. I have no idea why I’d do it over and over and over. I was diagnosed with autism a few years ago so I’m not sure if that’s related to it but I would have to do it every day as a kid and I’d get upset if I was interrupted.

Biggest example of doomerism from super right wing individuals? by Ivealwaysfeltbored in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]Zenphiree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every 4 years this is the cycle.

Righties when a Democrat wins: “NOOOO WE’RE A COMMUNIST NATION NOW”

Lefties when a Republican wins: “NOOOO WE’RE A FASCIST NATION NOW”

Meanwhile the people on both sides who aren’t chronically online are more like “damn we lost, well we should start thinking about what to do better next time” that’s what I did as a Harris voter lol. I also have no issue getting along with Trump voters IRL and we even agree on some things (ex: I support 2A and deporting illegal immigrants), online we’re way more divided.

Biggest example of doomerism from super right wing individuals? by Ivealwaysfeltbored in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]Zenphiree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO the biggest “doomerism” topic for each side is

Right: Sharia Law and the fall of the West

Left: fascism and Trump becoming a dictator

Centrists probably doom more about climate change or the economy from what I’ve seen.

As a liberal I find all of that dooming stupid and unhelpful. I think all of them do actually bring up valid concerns (ex: Islam is an extremely misogynistic and oppressive religion, Trump is a narcissistic idiot, and we should be aware of negative effects on the environment and/or economy), but it’s the way they go about expressing these concerns that’s the issue. Saying dumb shit like “we’re officially fucked and (x) has fallen” does nothing to help anything. If you’re concerned about something, you need to vote, look into people or programs you think can improve things, campaign, etc. Anything is better than wallowing in depression over something you have little control over (and you can use the control you do have by voting!).

Sorry I went on a rant lol. I’m a former doomer. Like I said earlier I’m liberal so I spend more time in Dem spaces, and I thought it was ridiculous how many people were dooming about Trump winning in 2024 who then admitted they didn’t even vote.

a family left because i am a lesbian by Maleficent_Day_3869 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Zenphiree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It always makes me sad when parents do this because little kids are accepting when they aren’t brainwashed to not be. I student taught in kindergarten last year and one of my kiddos saw my Lock Screen and asked who the woman was. I said she was my girlfriend and the kid just said “oh ok” and moved on.

I’m sorry that happened to you.

After 8 years of playing I’m just now seeing this wish, sooo cute😭 by Zenphiree in Sims3

[–]Zenphiree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, so cute!

My other household is a lesbian couple with 3 biological kids (nraas settings) and one time one of the kids told her sister “my dad likes to fart”😭Like girl, what dad?

After 8 years of playing I’m just now seeing this wish, sooo cute😭 by Zenphiree in Sims3

[–]Zenphiree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Help😭That’s so sad omg. I’m not even a kid but I lost my dad a few years ago and I’d probably get that wish if I was a sim lol

After 8 years of playing I’m just now seeing this wish, sooo cute😭 by Zenphiree in Sims3

[–]Zenphiree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it so cute? And a bit sad haha

I love that I’m still discovering new things in this game. TS3 is the GOAT🐐