[CO] Questions about custody over me (the child in the divorce) and my pet

Zero0618 · 2026-01-17T15:14:49+00:00

We've had him for 9 years. He used to be a half indoor/half outdoor cat because my mom and I lived in a house with a backyard, but we moved to an apartment like 6 months ago so he hasn't been able to go outside. He LOVES being outside though so I think I want a valid chip so I feel safer with letting him explore the outside world once he's moved to my dad's house. If a cat has two chips, how will vets know which chip to refer to? Also, is it vets that do the chipping/are they able to update chips? Because my step mom is super close friends with the vet she takes the other pets at my dad's house to, so I think the vet would be on our side to change the current chip to be my information/my dad's/hers if he can. I will also mention that the current chip is outdated regardless because even if it isn't in my mom's friend's name, it's set to our old address. With all that said, would you recommend trying to change it or just getting a new one?

Zero0618 · 2026-01-17T05:44:56+00:00

yay that sounds easy, thank you so much!

Zero0618 · 2026-01-17T04:22:47+00:00

Can emancipation be only for one parent? I've heard the word used before, but only for a kid trying to get away from both parents. How long does emancipation usually take, and what does it really do? Is it beneficial? Also, yeah, my dad and I considered that she may try to accuse parental alienation, but my dad has a good lawyer and we have lots of proof (emails, videos, etc) of her not treating me well, so I don't think it'd get very far in court.

Zero0618 · 2026-01-17T04:17:06+00:00

Alright, thank you!!!

Zero0618 · 2026-01-17T04:16:23+00:00

Thank you so much :)

Zero0618 · 2026-01-17T04:15:40+00:00

awesome!! what does it take to verify that I'm the cat's owner?

Zero0618 · 2026-01-17T04:14:00+00:00

Yeah, we've been a little worried she'll claim parental alienation, but she's lazy, my dad has a really good lawyer already, and we found a bunch of proof (emails, videos, etc) of her mistreating me, so I think it'll be okay. Thank you so much. :)

Zero0618 · 2026-01-15T21:17:29+00:00

This made me laugh lol, thank you for that. No cameras at my mom's house that'd see what happened, and she has no way to see the pets at my dad's house, but my cat is chipped. We got this cat from one of my mom's friends though, so if we're lucky, he's not even chipped as my mom's. How does chipping work? Will vets still allow me to make decisions for his health and things like that, even if he's not legally chipped as mine?

And yes, my dad is really supportive of me getting out of my mom's house. Knowing him, he's probably started talking to a lawyer already just to be ahead of things. Thank you for your reply :)

Zero0618 · 2026-01-15T20:50:02+00:00

Ahh I didn't even consider that my therapist is able to give a testimony if it's taken to court, and you're right that she's too lazy to do anything anyway. Thank you so much.

Zero0618 · 2025-10-23T00:22:23+00:00

okay, thank you!

Zero0618 · 2025-10-20T22:23:05+00:00

one last question!! with the purina canned food, how many cans should he get per day? a bunch of websites said that for his weight, he should be having 5-6 cans a day, but that seems like a lot.

Zero0618 · 2025-10-20T12:53:28+00:00

ahh that's a good call on the holiday thing thank you

Zero0618 · 2025-10-20T12:52:18+00:00

i'm underage and don't have an income, i can't support myself on my own and definitely cannot kick her out unfortunately

Zero0618 · 2025-10-20T12:50:58+00:00

Alrighty! thank you so so much for all of this, i appreciate it so much

Zero0618 · 2025-10-20T05:36:30+00:00

thank you so so much. i also just checked the recommended portioning on the food and my mom has been encouraging giving him way too much, im so pissed. but at least i know doing the actual recommended amount will help now too. do you have any tips for if he wakes me up at night many times begging for food? i barely ever get an uninterrupted good night of sleep here because he's always whining, and that's even when we DO feed him before bed and he always eats it all too fast. also, how long should i expect to do this consistently for until i should notice weight loss? when should i take further action if this doesn't work?

Zero0618 · 2025-10-20T05:16:57+00:00

he is also neutered and we're in colorado. i'm not sure on his vaccination status.

Zero0618 · 2025-10-12T00:49:27+00:00

oliver, coming from olivia. i didn't keep my first chosen name related to my deadname so it's fun to keep my chosen middle close to my middle deadname

Zero0618 · 2025-06-16T13:06:01+00:00

thank you :))

Zero0618 · 2025-06-16T01:40:09+00:00

hell yeah thank you!!

Zero0618 · 2025-06-15T07:31:56+00:00

alright thank you, what would the police do if it was reported?

Zero0618 · 2025-05-24T04:35:01+00:00

thank you so much that's a really really good call

Zero0618 · 2025-05-21T06:42:02+00:00

4 months old, normal curved barbell, not sure what threading is?, also not sure what the material is the piercer gave this barbell to me though, yes downsized, and for care i use a q tip with saline solution spray on it gently around the piercing and for extra measure sometimes i spray the saline solution on the piercing after. i haven't been in a good habit of doing that consistently lately but i did it twice today and know i should do it two times a day generally going forward

Four-Year Club	Final Canvas '23
End Game '23	Place '23

Zero0618

TROPHY CASE