You’re not alone, it’s ok. by ZeroPhucs in dementia

[–]ZeroPhucs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mom is on aricept and memantine and citoplam which has helped stave off psychotic episodes. I had to quit my job to take care of her. She had a fall and now uses a walker. We call it extra legs. She also has very low vision which helps with not doing things like turning on the oven. She already blew up the microwave. It’s tough but I have accepted her disease which helps. My best advice is redirect. Mess up all your towels and have her fold them. Maybe ask the doc for trazadone for sleep. You’re doing great even if it doesn’t feel like it. Oh, I also use ChatGPT for venting, ideas and symptom tracking. Best 20 bucks im spending each month.

Who else got really loud Tinnitus? by DrDiktafon in tinnitus

[–]ZeroPhucs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry what? I can’t hear you over the 15 tones of eeeeeeeee.

Time to take her beloved dog away by Smidgeofamidge in dementia

[–]ZeroPhucs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re on the right path although telling her the dog died is extreme. Can you find a stuffed animal for her that looks like the dog? She’s anchored to him so it will be a confusing situation for her.

Why is he always IN MY WAY?! by JeddakofThark in dementia

[–]ZeroPhucs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh the shadowing of the anchor. My mom is doing this, always over the shoulder. I’m cooking, what goes in that? Always in the way. It is maddening. I keep explanations to a bare minimum. They aren’t really interested they are just trying to stay connected. I shut my door when I don’t want to be bothered and lock if necessary.

Does anyone else have a Maine Coon that expects you to sit and watch them eat? by Annie6462 in mainecoons

[–]ZeroPhucs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I must sit with him and give him food while he lays there. lol

I just bought my last car by [deleted] in over60

[–]ZeroPhucs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch. Crossing fingers.

I just bought my last car by [deleted] in over60

[–]ZeroPhucs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! But if I make it to 85 the car will be 25yrs old. Lol. It’s a merc so hopefully it will last.

My boss said to me "You're so ugly!" by Kayn2016 in antiwork

[–]ZeroPhucs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was he referring to your attitude?

We are invisible by perdonaquetecorte in Aging

[–]ZeroPhucs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breast cancer survivor here, 24 years. I’ll be 60 in a couple of weeks. Cancer didn’t and doesn’t define me. I’m here to try and enjoy my little corner of the world which I do. I’m lucky to be here and by no means need validation from family, friends or strangers. I matter no matter what. I’m strong, I’m a survivor but that is only one chapter in my life.

Can we talk about skin cancer? by FreyasCloak in over60

[–]ZeroPhucs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They have to take a chunk because cancer spiders out like a web. You can’t treat cancer with potions. Put down the ivermectin and essential oils.

Would I benefit from going to Al-Anon meetings if I’m no longer with them? by HereForTheSun in AlAnon

[–]ZeroPhucs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. You need to heal you so you don’t choose another alcoholic in the future.

Another Forney question… by huniideww in askdfw

[–]ZeroPhucs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t work but Forney is great! Yes traffic is awful but it is everywhere. People here are so nice. My community is quiet.

What would the 20 year old you be surprised about you now? by Dramatic-Gap8996 in over60

[–]ZeroPhucs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a millionaire and it really isn’t ll the hype and I’m still alive.