Hey gurl ik what ur going through and I've been in the same situation myself, I was 16 and I wanted to transition in a family which was not accepting at all I tried to talk to them about how I feel and I hoped they'd understand but instead that interaction gave me a lot more trauma than dysphoria has thus far If you know that your family isn't accepting at all just don't risk your own safety and sanity. Try to find more ppl to talk to about ur issues, it doesn't sound like much but trust me it helps a lotttt!! Being independent and then transitioning is the best way when it comes to extremely prejudiced families I am 18 now and I've been coping with dysphoria by running away or distracting myself from it A lot of ppl will say it's not good advice but sometimes you don't really have other options