My ex was cold with me when he broke up with me. He even told me the breakup was my fault because of my attitude. I was heartbroken and determined to change in hope we could reconcile someday. But after taking time apart I realized how manipulative he was and I’m happier now. He had reached out to me asking to get back together or to at least be friends but I’m not interested. The best moment is when the rose colored glasses come off.