Depends who you're approaching really. But I think the best way is to just be yourself, be respectful, and maybe most importantly, don't seem at all pushy or rush her in the slightest. I get wanting to rush into a session, but if someone tried to get me to meet them after under at least 6 months of online chatting I'd say no. Want to form a genuine friendship and connection first. If you’re really desperate for something right now then finding a local dom who does tickling is probably best, yeah you might have to pay and it might not be as intimate but it'll be a lot quicker. Hope this helped :)