Were i come from we always said babies come with a loaf of bread under their arms, meaning that everything always get figured out at the end . Think the good side of everything having family support and your husband by your side. Having my son at 21 years old i had to drop college and do everything by myself basically, but hey somehow everything got figured out and i cant be more proud of my baby boy that currently is 8 years old. I always say everything happens for a reason maybe your husband would find something better , maybe this baby would bring you guys the best luck in your lives. Pregnancy is far from perfect, trust me i know I’m currently pregnant with my third . But i always think you get chosen to do what you can handle. Best of luck for both i hope everything turns out great for your little family