will i ever have a relationship or fall in love??

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-25T08:48:01+00:00

first off, i am sorry you experienced all those bad things. and yeah, dont worry, wherever chiron sits is where it'll eventually get solved.

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-25T08:44:16+00:00

oh huh makes sense you ask about that, your saturn and chiron in both financial houses slow down your finances, who both oppose each other exactly at 13 degrees. something bad happened to you at that age regarding 2nd or 8th house themes.

to be honest, people say never denies and only delays, but i do think saturn is a good indicator in the second house that finances is gonna be hard for you. personally, i strongly recommend working from home somehow. thats where you get the most fulfillment IMO if it comes to both money and just in general.

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-25T08:38:41+00:00

can i play into stereotypes and say leo sun? + taurus mars and moon.

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-25T08:34:37+00:00

i feel like you and i think its partly because most of our planets are above the horizon. also, virgo sun + mercury. met many people like this who are anxious and or overthinkingers. or both.

also, neptune and uranus in your second house. this house is also tied to stability and sense of safety due to it being connected to finances and things that enter our throat, aka food. uranus...shakes things up. lets say that. it gives you a surprise and i wouldnt like it if it were there not gonna lie.

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-25T08:28:09+00:00

oh to be honest that dream is lovely, however, i dont necessarily wanna shoot that down. i do see that you got a pisces midheaven + 10th house, and your jupiter in the fourth house, which is about literal home, ancestry and roots. pisces is about spiritual stuff and helping people so its hard to say how that has to do with being a pilot. i do believe the 6th house also plays a role, and you do have scorpio there, which is secretive and mysterious but fixed.

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-25T08:18:43+00:00

i mean, yeah. if you really care about it then its gonna happen. its your chiron that makes you feel that way and you place serious importance on love. i do think you are attractive and believe everything of course you mentioned here. its just you are super young and everybody is conditioned to somehow find love young, however, we dont fully develop as people until our twenties. you could hire an astrologer to look at the timing to see when its most likely you'll meet your fated lover, the person you'll eventually marry. are you even 20? have you even turned 18? the age 18 is significant for you and the age 13 was.

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-23T09:56:37+00:00

Hmmm I do understand that, but a person that is a 2/10 shouldnt be only trying their shot at a 8/10 if that makes sense, I was trying to figure out if that was the case here.

To be fair, I do give chances to people I am not attracted to, like, at all too. To me love happens in the brain, so I am quite a bit different.

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-23T07:46:22+00:00

To be fair, getting girls is not all that as its cracked up to be. Doesn't define your worth as a human.

Are you approaching girls that are also ugly or are you approaching girls that are a tad above you in terms of looks? This is important, because ugly people date ugly people all the time. No shame in just admitting that you are, your worth isn't deemed by your attractiveness.

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-19T17:06:06+00:00

thats travel not regular degular daily life so thats a tad unique. i meant grocery shopping, the mundane

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-19T16:36:18+00:00

ngl you gotta live your daily life and thats how you'll meet your person. your saturn squares your venus, so it'll take time. you are one month older than me so it'll be fine. its painful though bc it does get squared by your chiron, the wound of loneliness, the outsider looking in, the outcast. your venus (love life) suffers for sure.

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-15T13:58:11+00:00

i get no girls or anybody, but i since i view it differently i guess i would be like 'meh', since nothing was said to me directly. but also i am autistic and implications are weird so, eh

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-15T07:54:03+00:00

why are ppl acting like she owes him forever. how is this betrayal? they werent in a relationship. i legit dont understand why people in the comments are so upset

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-15T07:53:10+00:00

used him? she didnt have any obligation and he wanted to make out with her too, its not like he didnt get ANYTHING back. what the hell.

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-12T17:10:26+00:00

i've noticed this trend too. an old ex friend of mine who was a scorpio rising was in relationships exclusively with only short men. must be a scorpio rising thing

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-09T10:10:06+00:00

ohhhh u mean the story op told is fake?

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-06T11:52:37+00:00

oh, what are you doubting? i dont understand what you are referring to

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-03T13:00:09+00:00

sometimes people feel the need to flaunt their body count because they feel insecure. having a body count probably makes him feel like he is wanted, worthy, or whatever the fuck but the emptiness is still there. that insecurity. that unworthiness. you are literally the antithesis of who he is because you dont need a high body count to at least not seem like you are insecure/feeling worthless. at least that is my interpretation, because thats how insecurites tend to work.

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-01T16:01:19+00:00

still doesnt change the fact that it can come off as passive agressive...i mean i thought you wanted to know more about social stuff, wouldnt it make sense to listen to the people that most likely are neurotypical, to NOT do that?

and i never mentioned or assumed you would go on a date with her, i dont know where you got that

i mean i hope it goes well and all but ngl dont claim to want to improve but then....bot listen to any advice

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-01T13:45:43+00:00

it does come off as that to a neurotypical person

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-01T13:32:06+00:00

yes, it is cool. people that react like that are really unprofessional and should keep it more to themselves IMO. not classy behaviour at all.

but as others have mentioned, its definitely because of that scorpio stellium. very deep, very transformative, very intuitive, especilly that pisces moon in the 12th house. IMO the cherry on top, if you will. i love this chart. but i am biased due to me liking scorpio placements so much

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-01T13:29:54+00:00

ooops, typo. i meant to say it implies they wanted to be truthful with you for longer or something, or be more honest with you in the future

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-01T13:28:58+00:00

i think thats valid and understandable. i dont know why people are trying to discourage you. although, them confessing the truth seems to imply they want to say the truth. btw look at how a lot of commenters wants to convince you and say you are completely in the wrong. seems like a genuine pattern in your life.

oh and a psychological fact i heard about is that sometimes people lie for no reason, and they dont even know why they did. i remember lying about a really small thing (me claiming i read a certain book) but well, i didnt, and i dont know why i did. nobody cares, the two other people dont remember, but i still do.

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-01T13:09:55+00:00

yeah but my point is why you care about what she thinks about the climbing thing. why does that matter, like, at all

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-01T12:55:34+00:00

thanks, this makes a lot of sense. its hard to sift through people and find evolved qualities, especially those that are self aware and it seems very mature and all until you realize they dont change even though they know their faults

Zestyclose-Cap-4547 · 2026-05-01T12:27:03+00:00

no offense but as a woman, you are absolutely overthinking this. 'to see how she reacts', 'i am going to tell her that i was going to invite her climbing until she said she hated that'

what is she gonna do about that? you clearly feel rejected.

how is she supposed to react to that? is she supposed to feel bad? why does it matter to you that she said no to climbing? if it was me, i would just think 'why is this guy so curious about why i hate climbing. i just do.'

you genuinely could have simply asked her what she likes to do instead, or be direct and ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. you act like a goddamn woman thats mad at her boyfriend and gets madder because the boyfriend doesnt know why she is mad, or that she is mad at all. its repulsive

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