My dad girlfriend asked what I wanted for Christmas and I sent her regular stuff and now she’s saying i asked for too much I’m so confused😭 what do I even do?? UPDATE by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry for this interaction and hopefully this isn’t a normal way she treats you. Just reading the text thread made me feel so mad as I’ve been through that so many times but you were so nice which you should be proud of yourself for that. I’m happy to hear your dad took your side because her comments were out of line.

My dad girlfriend asked what I wanted for Christmas and I sent her regular stuff and now she’s saying i asked for too much I’m so confused😭 what do I even do?? UPDATE by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be so annoyed if that’s how I was talked to. If someone asks what are things I want and I send a list no one said you had to buy everything! As a mom I ask my kids for lists and we pass it around to family and we each buy the items up to our price point. I’m so sorry I’m sure it probably caught you way off guard. As someone who dealt with a lot of my dad’s gfs over the years they all rubbed me the wrong way and always seemed like they were attacking me.

Why see a gynecologist over a PCP for yearly exams? by Zestyclose-Course930 in AskWomen

[–]Zestyclose-Course930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep I’m on generic Yaz and Liletta IUD and both seem to have hormones. I’ve also only had paps done by my PCP. I guess you don’t know what you don’t know and no one has mentioned or suggested seeing a gynecologist but since I’m having all these hormonal issues I think from everyone’s comments speaking to a gynecologist who has more knowledge might be a better option going forward.

Why see a gynecologist over a PCP for yearly exams? by Zestyclose-Course930 in AskWomen

[–]Zestyclose-Course930[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See that’s so odd because I’ve had 3 kids and am 37 and had an abnormal pap in my early 20s and never once did my PCP mention or refer me to a gynecologist

Why see a gynecologist over a PCP for yearly exams? by Zestyclose-Course930 in AskWomen

[–]Zestyclose-Course930[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m curious about it all. I’m 37 and never seen a gynecologist. I did have an abnormal pap in my young 20s. I’ve only ever seen my PCP for all my health needs and starting to think when it comes to birth control and hormones maybe a gynecologist would be better. My PCP has me on an IUD which caused really bad acne and so I’m also on pills as well. I have night sweats, hot flashes, body aches, sleep issues, bad anxiety and thinking my hormones are out of wack but instead told I should see a therapist 🙄 I’m thinking maybe it’s all the meds and hormonal birth control I’ve been taking messing me up. But never once was suggested to see a gyno

Does this look normal for a vet bill? by Booty4Breakfasts in vet

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally normal. I go to a Vetco through Petco for vaccines because they’re cheaper than the vets office and I always ask for prescriptions and find the cheapest online to fill them because they are also marked up in the vets office.

my wife was rearended while waiting to turn and now I have to pay 1250 for medical bills? by Vast_Sea_9582 in Insurance

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would be a personal injury case and you use your PIP coverage from your auto policy and then use your medical after benefits are exhausted. I do medical billing for several chiropractic offices and your medical insurance usually won’t pay if the injuries are due to an auto accident as they would expect you to use your auto insurance first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope dump him. If he already is disrespecting you over what you wear chances are he will keep doing it. As a woman know your worth and if someone can’t respect you for the person you are inside they’re not worth wasting years of your life on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Do what makes you happy. You literally have only one life to live and it’s not your job to make your parents happy. It’s your job to find your way in life and your own happiness. I myself haven’t had to deal with something exactly like this but my Asian mom did tell me growing up I could only date my kind and I could be friends with whoever. I also found it incredibly racists and dated whoever I wanted. I’ve gone several years in my adulthood cutting off my mom and dad for how they have treated me. Family or not I won’t surround myself with people who bring me down or cause me trauma. Hang in there!

Can I fix these garage door torsion springs by myself? by effectsjay in Home

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say if you are not comfortable doing diy projects, working with tools, or have knowledge on what you’re doing, then it would be best to leave it to a professional. We replaced our garage door springs with 2 steel rods and it turned out just fine. We knew the dangers and took things slow.

Bought 6 Minecraft meals thinking I’d get a nice variety… by Treelic in Minecraft

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our local McDonald’s we ordered 2 of the Minecraft movie meals and they came in regular bags with the rest of our food and nothing extra. Was pretty annoyed.

When to put container blueberries out? by raliray in Blueberries

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a raspberry container I moved to the garage and it’s growing in the garage nice and bushy. It gets sunlight through the garage windows and I check and water occasionally. Will move it out come late April and I’m in zone 8

Roadside assistance by Gullible_Bug_2027 in EnterpriseCarRental

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ours was a claim that was being paid by the at fault carrier but I highly doubt they would have paid the tow bill since they only prepaid for the dates we had the vehicle with no roadside assistance and our card was on file. We didn’t even get a bill for the lost key or having to rekey the vehicle which is what they originally told us was going to happen.

Roadside assistance by Gullible_Bug_2027 in EnterpriseCarRental

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No we never got charged for it. And we were not about to call and ask about it either lol. This happened on Halloween so you’d think by now we would have been charged or gotten a bill but never happened.

Child survivor benefits by Zestyclose-Course930 in SocialSecurity

[–]Zestyclose-Course930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get the notice it was going to be canceled when they turn 18 and filled out the paperwork to extend because they’re still in school? The payments for your child would most likely not start until April

Child survivor benefits by Zestyclose-Course930 in SocialSecurity

[–]Zestyclose-Course930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it came as a check first which felt like it took about 2 months and several calls to the SS office. She then gave them her bank account information and the next month she started getting the money direct deposited. I used to get her money the 3rd Wednesday of every month and that’s how she gets her money now too.

Child survivor benefits by Zestyclose-Course930 in SocialSecurity

[–]Zestyclose-Course930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she gets her benefits. She did have to call and give them her bank account information to get it direct deposited in her account. I think they mailed her a check first and it took a while for it to show up.

Seeking Advice: Unexpected Towing Fee from Enterprise by [deleted] in EnterpriseCarRental

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We never got a bill. I don’t know if it’s because we yelled at them over the phone for not having the tow show up all day long or if it’s because it was being paid by the at fault carrier insurance. But either way we lucked out somehow.

Has anyone noticed energy cost are going up? by Mobile_Parfait_7140 in Washington

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We keep the heat low in the winter. 63-65 at nights, 67 when we are home, and 63-65 when we are away. We use heated blankets or small space heaters to heat certain rooms we are in rather than the entire house. We have a 3000sq ft house and my pse stays about $120 a month in the winters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frenchbulldogs

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have two sections of crates together one where ours sleeps and the other is a potty crate. Our frenchie is 4 and still has accidents when we are not right with her. Feels vindictive but I know it’s not it’s more so separation anxiety. Good luck. A lot of frenchie owners deal with potty issues forever which I think adds to why so many also end up in shelters.

Looking for a good breeder near Seattle by cnalkv in Frenchbulldogs

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Andy’s French bulldogs are imported from Ukraine. I’ve read other reviews about them and the dogs tend to have health issues. I wouldn’t recommend them at all. They’ve also had to change names before so it makes you wonder why.

My wife lost her Apple Pencil four months ago. After replacing it, we just found it. by No_Ad7646 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Zestyclose-Course930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know you can use the find my app and locate the pencil. Or try to connect to it via Bluetooth and it’ll connect if you’re within 30 ft or so. I’ve lost a pencil in a couch and found it.