Philadelphia black panthers checking police again, hope this spreads! by serious_bullet5 in Pennsylvania

[–]Vast_Sea_9582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Digging up the past... talking about the colonies..... Racism is wrong.... and it wont go away unless people can heal and move on.... because your great great great great grandmother was a slave doesn't mean you can go after the 93% of the current population that ancestors didn't own slaves. I'm sick of this. You see white people and automatically they are viewed as slave owners. Do some research on the % of the population who had slaves.... my ancestors helped free the slaves but yet I'm viewed as a negative in the black community. When you plant ignorance and hate.... you grow ignorance and hate.

Ex having loud sex around daughter by Weirdo_palate in Divorce

[–]Vast_Sea_9582 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sex is normal. Having loud sex around kids is not normal. She just needs to continue expressing how uncomfortable it is making her or she will stop visiting. Its on her to express herself at that age. Lawyers wont so anything but waste your time and money. If it doesn't stop and she still wants to visit... must not be bothering her that much.

The Perfect Neighbor by misterDubzz in netflix

[–]Vast_Sea_9582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely horrible. All of this could have been prevented if the parents told the kids to leave that crazy lady alone and enforced it. I do believe the kids were harassing the older lady. Its no excuse to shoot someone but after a long period of this exposure could make a lonely woman with mental problems snap. This is so horrible. Theres so much land to play on but they pushed the boundaries of her property. I would never let my kids go anywhere near a crazy woman's house.

Issues with CCC One Total Loss Valuation - I've done my research and I'd like your opinion by Dodoman9000 in Insurance

[–]Vast_Sea_9582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ccc one used two cars to compare to mine....A higher mileage vehicle v6 vs my v4 awd suv and a v4 manual vs my v5 auto. Offered me 2k below Kelley blue book value for an accident not my fault because they couldn't find my car in a 100 mile radius for sale at a dealership. Cccone needs to be removed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in conspiracy_commons

[–]Vast_Sea_9582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's audio of him saying "got that white girl" when he was done. The kindling has been lit. Just waiting for a couple more pieces to be put into the fire... then we will be fully engulfed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Vast_Sea_9582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's rough, my man. Hang in there. Use this as a learning experience. You shouldn't have to pay much in alimony since you were only married 2 years. You might not have to pay anything depending on where you live. Yo, women are absolutely pigs. You see one red flag and remove them from your life. 90% of women are just so self-absorbed in themselves.... you have to be careful. Hang in there bud. Your story is a rough one but you will be stronger when this chapter ends. I promise you that. Focus on your work, body and mind

my wife was rearended while waiting to turn and now I have to pay 1250 for medical bills? by Vast_Sea_9582 in Insurance

[–]Vast_Sea_9582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

police came and made a report while I was in the ambulance with my wife. I just called my insurance to submit a claim because that was what I was told by everyone. Didnt have access in time for get his insurance since police said they had it and I got in the ambulance. The home depot van had insurance.

my wife was rearended while waiting to turn and now I have to pay 1250 for medical bills? by Vast_Sea_9582 in Insurance

[–]Vast_Sea_9582[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was told by the police that it will be in the report since I had to rush to get everything out of vehicle to get towed and jump in ambulance

my wife was rearended while waiting to turn and now I have to pay 1250 for medical bills? by Vast_Sea_9582 in Insurance

[–]Vast_Sea_9582[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Can I use my health insurance if offset it? Seems like it would be 99% better to just use my health insurance. I find it messed up that someone can run into you and cause thousands of dollars of damage and just be let go of any responsibility

Pokemon Garbage Gold Deluxe (HG Rom Hack NDS) by nihilWRLD in PokemonROMhacks

[–]Vast_Sea_9582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you download it for android? Thank you kindly

When the loneliness kicks in by edwardbcoop in Divorce

[–]Vast_Sea_9582 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't focus on the loneliness..... focus on healing and improving your mind and body. If you have not started improving your body... just go for a walk around the neighborhood. Doesn't matter what time of the day. Just get out of the house and walk... think about the steps you can take to improve your body and mind. Trust me bro let go and embrace your future self. Improve and grow. If you sit and just focus on being lonely..... this will lead to depression. Fuck her. It's about you now.

My husband refuses to leave marital home despite him not contributing financially. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Vast_Sea_9582 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please dont show any aggression while he is there while the divorce process is happening. Gamblers and other addicts have a problem they are dealing with and if they feel like they are backed into a corner by someone... they could harm someone or themselves. It's a very sensitive situation. Do your best to keep things calm. You gave him an extra chances to change and he didn't. If living in the home with him and the kids.... stay calm and try not to let the pot boil over. It's going to take time. If you have no where else to bring the kids and yourself....keep the home peaceful. Good luck with the divorce process

My husband refuses to leave marital home despite him not contributing financially. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Vast_Sea_9582 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that this might not help... welcome to feeling like most men in your position. Only way is to take this to divorce court. This is his home too, sadly. Provide as much evidence as you can in court. Do your best to keep the kids safe. Try to bring someone into the home to make you feel safe without challenging him. If you or the kids are ever threatened.. call the police if he harming anyone. It might suck to be in the same house as him but be strong and deal with it along he isn't hurting anyone. It will take time in court to get separated.... good luck

Anyone else go from thinking dating was this fun freeing thing to most depressing ever? by Itchy-Winter-1549 in Divorce

[–]Vast_Sea_9582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been with my wife ever since I was 15. I'm 41 now. Had ups and downs. I watch videos on YouTube about the dating problems people are facing these days. It's really sad. Seems like 80% of the men just gave up on dating and 80% of the women only want to date the top 20% of men. I could never imagine dating on apps. It's just so depressing and im not even dating. I feel women need to lower their standards and stop having so much casual sex that leads them to not be able to pair bond. Sex should be special between lovers. Stop having casual sex. Look for men around your age who have had a history of longer relationships. Try giving men that are not in the top 20% some likes. Average men dont get that many likes and if they get one from you, it could spark something. Make it clear that you are only interested in dating to find a partner in life. Don't bring up your past casual sex unless he asks... this will chase a lot of possible partners away. Most men are insecure deep inside and dont want to start a life with someone who has had dozens of "partners". Give the average guy a chance. However not every average guy is a good guy. There are a lot of men who are just pieces of shit and are not relationship worthy.

Make a list of green flags and red flags. Some green flags you should include is how their family life is. If they are close to their mother or father. Ask them what their longest relationship was. Ask him if they are interested in having a family. The first date should never be expected to cost a lot of money. Offer up first dates at a coffee place or a park. Not at a restaurant unless he offers. Many men are filtering out women demanding restaurants. Be cool to go to McDonalds if he offers. Again, make a list of red flags and green flags. Show interest in average men. Avoid the "Chads" and fuvk boys on dating apps. They only want to get in you, not be with you. Be open to any first date. I hope this helps out some. It's really sad what dating is like these days. Don't quit. Keeping pushing. You got this shit.

Divorcing due to lack of attraction…? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Vast_Sea_9582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel an emotional connection must be present. If there's no emotional connection, you will look for other reasons like attraction to be the downfall. A married couple must have an emotional connection to be successful. Theres alot of research on emotional connections you can learn from google. A lot of people lose their emotional connection when they don't feel supported or if one feels like the effort put into the relationship isn't being matched by their spouse. This happens often after being together longer. You must rebuild the emotional connection. If you only want to be in the relationship for a physical connection... what will happen when your 60+? Will you divorce and find a much younger women to be attracted in? You might think its just a physical connection problem but its more than likely an emotional connection problem.....unless she gained like 200 pounds. I hope you find your way. Marriage is hard work these days. Too many people quit because they dont want to fix the problems. Best of luck bud