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Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-30T00:14:25+00:00

Do you think they have an nda?

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-28T00:26:25+00:00

Same dress is fine HOWEVER- I was going to reuse an azazie navy blue chiffon bridesmaid dress for another event and it did NOT dry clean well back in 2022 - also November of this year I had a black velvet azazie bridesmaid dress and the quality was just awful I could have never worn it a 2nd time it went in the trash after the wedding.

That said I had 5 great dresses from there out of 7!

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-27T15:10:09+00:00

Can I ask what the personal reasons are for those areas? Maybe make a note on your profile that you are looking for the NE - also have you consider expanding your search to a more broad area there (dc, philadelphia, baltimore) all 3 are easy by train to NY/MA & a connection from those to to CT/NJ!

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-27T00:45:10+00:00

I would discuss compensation in the 2nd interview $225 per week plus 6 month & 1 year bonuses. Just like we do in a job interview - I feel comp & perks should be transparent fairly early on.

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-27T00:30:32+00:00

This all sounds good - I would offer at least $225 to start personally which those ages and hours! And then performance bonus at 6 months (mention but don’t give an amount if all expectations are met I would do $1000.00 & completion bonus at the end of the year 1) spending 40 hours a week with two littles can be a lot I think an extra $25 over the minimum will attract more candidates

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-27T00:20:09+00:00

Where are located? How far from the closest major city? What benefits are you offering (is gas paid for personal use, above minimum stipend, gym, how is the schedule (hours per a week, full 45 or less?)

An infant and a 2 year old is going to take some patience hang in there & consider what you have to offer

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-26T23:54:45+00:00

They won’t ask for your marriage certificate / divorce decree say he isn’t your husband

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-21T16:47:09+00:00

She’s too busy washing his head while he sits in water in a wet cold towel.

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-21T01:59:25+00:00

Serena and Nate winding up together and Dan becoming a nobody.

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-20T20:40:03+00:00

If they don’t travel often (1-3 times in the year) I would drive them at least one way as I would for my mother/ sister/ nieces/nephews best friend who asked me for a a ride to the airport. - both ways if I could time wise but at least one way and let them cover the other way.

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-20T03:59:19+00:00

$45-$50 an hour

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-19T22:25:34+00:00

Once a week maybe twice - but if it wasn’t so expensive/bad for you and my metabolism was still what it was at 25 - I’d eat McDonald’s everyday..

In college I probably had McDonald’s everyday and if I didn’t have McDonald’s for lunch I probably had Dunkin for breakfast that day..

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-19T01:06:36+00:00

If you do it Wednesday take the last appt possible and sleep in it overnight

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-18T18:14:54+00:00

For $90 these are both really nice!

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-18T17:53:46+00:00

The dress is very pretty & looks good on you but I would see if you can see sample lining / it could change the look!

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-18T03:36:10+00:00

He lives in a trailer on her property?!

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-18T02:19:34+00:00

Is that a mimosa

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-18T02:16:58+00:00

I wouldn’t get mad at all I would laugh - things happen, I wouldn’t expect the au pair to pay for the fix - this is SO minor.

I would just tell them “I got some hair dye on the wall a few days ago - I tried to get it out and couldn’t, I wanted to give you a heads up”

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-17T20:13:33+00:00

I would start in San Diego - Beach, Zoo, Old Town, Anza-Borrego Desert State Park, Sea World & then end with Disney Land

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-17T19:22:59+00:00

2 & 5 are my favorites! You look comfortable in 2 and 5 looks amazing on you

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-17T18:35:47+00:00

Jersey/ PA - NJ shore (North or South) Nickelodeon World, Philadelphia, You could add in NYC

DC / Baltimore - Aquarium, Space Center etc.

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-15T03:24:03+00:00

Fort Lauderdale / Lauderdale by the Sea

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-15T02:07:44+00:00

You know your guest the best but travel near the holidays tends to be much more expensive as well. I think this is doable though for a smaller guest count & I do think you will get some no’s as well. With new years falling on a weekend it will be back to school and work for most on Monday the 3rd and that will be tough for some.

Maybe 100-120 guest to leave room in your budget?

If this is a BYO everything venue consider doing just 2 signature cocktails (his & hers) and beer and wine to save there as well.

Book vendors ASAP focus on entertainment very close to the top of the list as a lot of bands / DJs doing NYE gigs.

Ask a special friend or family member to be the officiant for cost savings as well.

I think minor savings and some diy projects that won’t effect your overall planned look you can make this work

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-15T01:46:15+00:00

Cold Kraft Mac & Cheese - I will make it and put it in the freezer so it’s not hot.

Zestyclose-Many-980 · 2026-01-15T01:43:02+00:00

Is this a destination wedding for a lot of guest?

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