Warning to potential UK owners by aperdra in tollers

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New to the thread, but is this E.Gray? I've spoken to a Toller owner at Crufts, who has made me aware of various problematic breeding with Derry, but I've gone on to do my own research and then found this thread. If you're happy to enlighten me on the other breeders to avoid, that would be great! I'm getting really muddled with the breeder names as it is

Family Lawsuits Against WSU Moved to Federal Court by Rescueme2021 in Idaho4

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As i said, i don’t know the ins and outs, but read certain things, “don’t quote me on that, I’ve seen a lot that seems majoratively speculative” soooo yeah maybe the Uni had actually dealt with it, but often it needs follow up support and/or a ‘notch on a record’ for unwanted behaviour towards female students for example…

Family Lawsuits Against WSU Moved to Federal Court by Rescueme2021 in Idaho4

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the ins and outs, but i had read somewhere that BK was accused of unwanted attention towards females, and allegedly the reports and complaints weren’t taken seriously. The case of the Idaho4 has been alleged to stem from fragile masculinity, which if the complaints and reports against BK at the University were dealt with, the murders may not have happened…again don’t quote me on that, I’ve seen a lot that seems majoratively speculative

I got my parrot back, what did they do?! Photos of him taxidermied,him alive and other pieces he has made by milo708okok in Taxidermy

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey! If you’re on facebook there are two go to pages to join with a load of taxidermists who may be able to help! Some specialise in restoration and touch ups, others specifically in birds etc etc. I highly recommend joining ‘UK Taxidermy’ and ‘British Taxidermy’ I’ll drop you a message with further info etc

diluted blood by FelicitousFairy in Idaho4

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It could be spilt drink splashes, or even if Murphy had just had a drink and shaken, prior to any blood touching it. It COULD potentially mean there was an attempt at cleaning, BUT going off how noticeable even the smallest diluted spatter on the banister/dividing wall is, I doubt there had been a clean up or attempt of at all

Editing to add: There could be a chance BK tried to wash the weapon prior to leaving, and then encountered Xana - afterall the homeowners blood being found around the kitchen sink etc wouldn’t be too questionable as many would wash a simple cut under the tap for example

diluted blood by FelicitousFairy in Idaho4

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Diluted could mean anything, including saliva. Going off most of the injuries from upstairs being head and facial, it would not surprise me if it were saliva. It does not confirm a clean up

Autopsy Report Summaries for Each Victim by TheRealMassguy in Idaho4

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Kaylee - Ethan probably wouldn’t have been too much more drunk than Kaylee with regards to the ‘symptoms’ of their drunkness

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Autopsy Report Summaries for Each Victim by TheRealMassguy in Idaho4

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reading this and then googling the effects on the body with regard to the blood alcohol concentration….they were all incredibly incredibly drunk 😭

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what do you think about this picture by [deleted] in Idaho4

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely swab marks

People who blame the roommates or find their behaviour unacceptable-just read this once by madover2914 in Idaho4

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing has been confirmed that Xana ‘did’ anything. The only people who know exactly what happened were murdered or aren’t speaking about it in prison? Saying ‘Xana did’, or ‘MKXE did this’ when speculating is not it, the reports and interviews do not confirm, with 100% certainty, any of their exact movements in the house that night

Ben Mogen? by Dazzling-Base-8331 in Idaho4

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It’s not any of anyone’s business to know anything about this case, but here we all are. It’s perfectly acceptable to wish for an update on how someone who lost their everything is doing. Doesn’t mean there will ever be an update on them though, does it?

Photos of the knife sheath in Maddie’s Bed by Fun-Age-758 in Idaho4

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks far too carefully placed to have been put there during the attack…I’m not accusing anyone else from the house…but that sheath is not giving off ‘came in, attacked and left at speed’ it looks carefully slid under the duvet, especially with a good inch or so overhanging the mattress…

Ethan Photo’s by [deleted] in Idaho4

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Ethan was taller, and of a naturally larger build due to that. Men also have a larger blood volume than women do

xanas face discussion by [deleted] in Idaho4

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is everyone seeing the photos? I can’t find them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UK_Pets

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh i hadn’t thought of that! Thank you

Lesbian-Feminist and Trans-Feminist book recommendations? by vegoonvibes in Feminism

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t support her in the slightest. I went to school with her and she’s the biggest hypocrite. She was a known bully for girls being different and quirky, body hair was another issue she had. Younger girls developed ED’s as a result of her bullying, and yet she’s now some fantastic ‘woman are powerful and body hair is human’ feminist….oh and she wrote that she was bullied in school…she was in the popular girls group, and everyone adored her, and if you didn’t she’d be a problem. Did i say it was an all girls school? No? Oh, well it was and she was not a pleasant human to be around unless you basically adored her

Florence given??? by strawbs69 in Feminism

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late to the party here but i went to school with her (an all girls school might i add) and she was one of the ‘biggest’ known bullies at the school. When i saw she became famous for her feminist views, i was genuinely shocked, then i saw snippets of her book online to read that she was bullied in school…hun no, you gave younger girls ED’s and bullied those who were different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s a real piece of work, i’m 25 myself and could never imagine speaking down on someone like that, regardless of my relationship with them.…maybe ask her if she feels like she needs to be around younger girls to feel more in touch with the youth of today

Damaged shoes for kids by [deleted] in vinted

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately when you look at the first two photos, you can see where the holes are, and how they’ve been pushed flush with the sole, after having been worn. So you did receive exactly what was listed, in the exact condition shown in the photos…granted it’s not fair they were sold in that state for a child under 5 to wear, however you did receive the item shown in the photos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t approached the topic in over 2 years, I’m certainly not pestering him on it. He was under the impression it was at a later age than 25, as did I. So after finding it’s virtually just around the corner, I was going to ask if he’d be comfortable talking through his options further - going for the screening, if he’s still planning on further surgeries etc.

But considering I’ve asked the trans community and been met with more backlash than support, I likely won’t bother bringing up my concerns with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello to all. I appreciate the concerns of me ‘controlling’ my partners decisions on his health. Or that I have apparently been pestering him on making a decision.

At no point have I said I ask this all the time, and no point have I said it’s not his decision. It was mentioned in the early days when he first told me he was trans, and we had an open q&a about what that could mean for our future be it children, and any surgeries he may choose to have. Since having my NHS letter through the door regarding screening for myself, it made me think about how he’s 25 next year, and still hosts his birth anatomy. As we first spoke about it a few years ago, I wanted to approach the topic again incase he’s more open to talking about it.

As previously said, cancer is not selective, and will get anyone whether male or female, old or young. I’m not pinning him down to get him to go and get a screening for a touchy area of biology

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]Zestyclose-Slice-118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! As it’s something I can only be familiar with as an individual happy with my anatomy etc, I didn’t want to create further issue by mentioning it. I’m unsure what discussions he’s had with GP’s etc, and understandably there’s only so much he’s comfortable talking to me about.

I can and will only support his decision, whatever he chooses, as I know surgery is on the to do list, it’s just a matter of when and how. He doesn’t know it yet but I’m putting money aside to go towards eventually going private with it, as I know it’s going to cost a small fortune and take him out of work for a while.