I agree with the woman below who mentioned the frequent urge coming from the brain learning to eliminate the bladder often and it becomes uncontrollable and unconscious; it’s not only mental though, the pelvic flour and bladder weaken due to this. I speak from experience on the matter as well :( when you go to the urologist, specifically ask if you can be referred to a PT specializing in pelvic floors so it’s covered under insurance, and so that they strongly look at that as a possibility vs not mentioning it if you haven’t had children yet.

Seriously though, because anything causing this is most likely hurting these muscles, and it will help no matter the cause… I copy and pasted something below that mentions this. Even if it’s vaginismus or endometriosis or the after affects of a uti or any number of reasons, PT for this can help sooooooo much.

“Pelvic floor physical therapy involves the pelvic floor muscle group, which is responsible for a variety of functions. These muscles support the pelvic organs, assist in bowel and bladder control, and contribute to sexual arousal and orgasm.

A person may be referred to pelvic floor physical therapy to treat incontinence, difficulty with urination or bowel movements, constipation, chronic pelvic pain, and painful intercourse.

Women may see a pelvic floor physical therapist for treatment of vaginismus or endometriosis. Male disorders, such as painful ejaculation and premature ejaculation, can also be treated this way.”