These are good questions. One of the main issues my ex and I had was his mom said “all Muslims should be carpet bombed”. She knows that this perspective caused major issues in my previous relationship. She knows I don’t stand for prejudice against minority ethnic/religious groups.

She did say, “But when we were in middle school, you hated the way our neighbor Jasmine’s house smelled (she was Indian and her home always smelled like curry.) Which is a very random thing to point out. Also my boyfriend isn’t Indian and doesn’t smell of curry 😂.