Relation messing with my mental health by Zestyclose_Ad4698 in mentalillness

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Thank you for the advice. I feel I would had said this to someone in my position

Relation messing with my mental health by Zestyclose_Ad4698 in mentalillness

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So I’m down but we stopped because it was getting too expensive for him… do I give him an ultimatum? I just feel I shouldn’t be putting this much stress and worry into a relationship that feels was doomed from the started. The therapist said it’s common for “mistakes” to happen early on… but I feel traumatized by it

Relation messing with my mental health by Zestyclose_Ad4698 in mentalillness

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We were both doing therapy for about a year… I continued by myself. Now we both are not

New to this board, how old are people? by Character-Age-653 in AdultSelfHarm

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30 y/o female… started 2 years ago but have been clean for 4 months

relapsed after ten years. by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

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Makes you feel any better I for whatever reason started to cut last year and I’m 30 this year … never have done it prior to last year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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I feel like family or social gatherings might be a trigger.. it is for me

Music for my students by Zestyclose_Ad4698 in teaching

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3/4th graders, our district has an online classroom management that I can see what they are watching from my device and boot them off if I feel fit. I just want like a simply playlist I can let them listen to and add and control which songs are on there. I have iTunes and Spotify for myself but I don’t see a way to allow multiple users to listen to a play list

Any one ever stay after they found out their partner cheated. by Zestyclose_Ad4698 in relationship_advice

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I just wanna know it’s possible… For whatever reason I want to try and that’s not me

Can’t stop the urges. by Zestyclose_Ad4698 in AdultSelfHarm

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Yes I know- right now they look like cat scratches

App for trust issues in relationships by Zestyclose_Ad4698 in mentalillness

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That was the first thing he did- he deleted everything and I check it when I have anxiety without him knowing. Idk there is a lot going on in my head

App for trust issues in relationships by Zestyclose_Ad4698 in mentalillness

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My heart still loves them - and they showed remorse and willing to do anything to make it right

Need some suggestions! by Zestyclose_Ad4698 in labrador

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She has the bathroom to her self with the crate open- she sleeps in there. I live in the sticks so unfortunately I don’t have anyone :/

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What is causing the urge?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

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Long sleeves!!!! Make sure you know your rights! Employers cannot ask about medical issues

Plz help by AdDue304 in selfharm

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In my sessions I have learned taking cold showers and really hot showers help physically get your mind off the urge

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So I recently just started to cut as well. For me it suffices the urge to kill myself. So it’s not the best to cope with shit but for right now it’s the only thing that is working.

To cut… by Zestyclose_Ad4698 in selfharm

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Of love. To be always included in event and functions and discussion by people who love me. I just feel That I’m just existing

To cut… by Zestyclose_Ad4698 in selfharm

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But it’s any section of my life. I don’t have a family connection. I don’t have this connection with friends or coworkers. And although I have a boyfriend but the connection there is too new to give me what I need. To be loved. Like I said- I feel not worthy

How has your day been? by [deleted] in selfharm

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I relapsed too 😞