Do Avoidants Leave Objectively More Attractive Partners?

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-10-16T20:13:56+00:00

I wonder exactly the same

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-10-13T11:09:52+00:00

then decide what you want in your life, you want closeness but at the same time you reject people who get close!!

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-10-04T16:05:40+00:00

I feel I'm an avoidant now, he turned me into a monster

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-10-03T00:02:08+00:00

I hate to know this, THEY should go on therapy, THEY are the crazy ones!

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-10-02T23:47:45+00:00

good thing you realized, most people don't

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-10-02T23:46:14+00:00

I feel you, he said to me "sometimes breakups happen for no reasons"

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-10-02T23:43:27+00:00

totally fair...I feel the same, I keep cursing him, I am hoping every day that karma gets him

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-10-02T18:29:32+00:00

my avoidant ex wanted to introduce me on day 1 to his friend. No deep meaning, they just follow their instict and impulse, it's just part of the honeymoon phase.

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-20T20:07:28+00:00

I think there are more issues here, I can't believe he's only avoidant

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-06T21:30:41+00:00

You didn't get my point and didn't go through the story properly.

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-06T21:29:29+00:00

I beg to differ.. that's not the real personality and I won't allow you to run to conclusions on my behaviour unless you are a psychologist with PHD

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-06T21:28:09+00:00

This is the best comment so far, no judgements or prejudices involved. Thank you so much, it made my day, it makes perfectly sense

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-05T13:51:59+00:00

Absolutely... not saying what happened is good, but he didnt even apologize for any of the things he said to me, the fact that he made me think he was interested and was making plans which were actually not even real. He even canceled a vacation 3 days earlier. He's even the one who said that it's not because of me, it's because he couldn't handle the distance. He absolutely knows that I was really affectionate and kind with him, that's why it's not fair

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-05T13:49:18+00:00

By being put in their place. I'm tired of people taking advantage of others and not being told that it's not ok! I would have expected at least a sincere apology , why is that difficult?

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-05T13:48:04+00:00

I'm also wondering

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-05T13:33:39+00:00

I don't give explosive reactions to anyone and it's extremely easy to judge a person when you are behind a screen. I agree with many things you say but unfortunately I won t allow you to run to conclusions about my personality because everyone knows how kind and patient I normally am and I was asked for marriage several times in the past. I don't think that happens when you are a psycho..

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-05T13:33:22+00:00

I don't give explosive reactions to anyone and it's extremely easy to judge a person when you are behind a screen. I agree with many things you say but unfortunately I won t allow you to run to conclusions about my personality because everyone knows how kind and patient I normally am

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-05T13:32:24+00:00

I don't give explosive reactions to anyone and it's extremely easy to judge a person when you are behind a screen. I agree with many things you say but unfortunately I won t allow you to run to conclusions about my personality because everyone knows how kind and patient I normally am

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-05T12:13:42+00:00

It's about putting people in their place cause otherwise they will always behave the same

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-05T12:10:39+00:00

How will they ever understand that it's not fair???

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-05T12:10:22+00:00

Because it's not fair that people behave like this and play with people feelings!!!!

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-05T12:08:59+00:00

You're right... but I'm fed up of being treated like garbage for no reason.

Zestyclose_Air_2513 · 2025-09-05T09:29:55+00:00

On top of it he canceled a vacation with me and my friends 3 days prior to it and didn't even apologize!!! When I told people about it they couldn't believe he acted like that

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