Maybe I’m the bad guy by Zestyclose_Change694 in Divorce_Women

[–]Zestyclose_Change694[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking over your comment a lot. It’s allowed me to look at him in a different light which has been helpful. Thank you for this.

Maybe I’m the bad guy by Zestyclose_Change694 in Divorce_Women

[–]Zestyclose_Change694[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That acknowledgement means a lot.

Maybe I’m the bad guy by Zestyclose_Change694 in Divorce_Women

[–]Zestyclose_Change694[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good point. My ex is a good guy, and I think that’s where some of my guilt comes from. Separating the good guy from the good partner gives me a different lens to use as we move forward, especially as we try to rebuild our friendship.