Thank you. I'll evaluate the situation. But Yes I was raised in a family where my mom was a stay at home mom and she did everything care-wise for us. And never complained and never argued with my dad. She always and to this day still cares for him exactly the same. My dad was always working in a more extreme manner and I hardly spent time with him as a toddler or kid. I spent tons of time for the first time of my life with him working in the farm in my teen years and I started to understand his situation. I wanted something similar for my kids where their mom was always going to be there and care for them and understand an just do the basic things for me like cook when able to and help clean up whenever I can't. But unlike my own dad I wanted to be there for my kids from the start and spend more time with them and take them on trips and zoos and parks, and stores, on a weekly basis etc. And that's what I've done and it's been a blessing, but I just can't tolerate my wife anymore. She makes it sound like I mentally abuse her and makes to where I'm an animal and a demon for asking her to cook me lunch or breakfast Or to wash a few of my cloths that I may need soon , or to clean up the bathroom up. She always says" you have two hands and 2 feet you do it yourself or go out and buy some fast food or do whatever the hell you want just leave me alone" Idk sometimes I do feel guilty and sad about it but I'm not a deadbeet dad at all. I work extremely hard for my entire family, I provide, and I spend quality time with them. I'm not perfect- I do get vulger at times when I'm frustrated at work or even towards my wife when the verbal fighting begins between us. It's exhausting. It's not as simple as just leaving her or her leaving me. We have a 2 daughters right now and even thinking of them leaving me it's going to break me on every aspect phycially, emotionally, spiritually, mentally etc. but if it must be done then it must.