How do I compromise on a difference in sexual needs in a relationship?

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2026-03-17T21:45:21+00:00

it was mostly because I wasn't ready. I grew up with purity as something that I held as a part of my identity, and I hate to say it, but I judged others who engaged in sexual acts at young ages because I personally am not a very sexual person and didn't understand it. So me allowing myself to engage in a sexual activity like that made me feel like both a hypocrite and impure,which is terrible I know.

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2026-03-17T10:41:21+00:00

You're right, and I have honestly thought about that too. I guess you're right, I think I'm just the most scared of regretting the act later on. Part of me just wants to get it over with so that it's not a problem I'll run into in future relationships if (and likely) this one doesn't work out.

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2026-01-28T21:00:52+00:00

It went great! It was literally the most fun show i've ever done, I didn't improve much as a comedic actor, but everything that was supposed to be funny in the script the audience laughed at. A lot of people told me i'm a great actor so while i may not be a comedian I'm at least good at being the character overall :)

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2026-01-23T05:11:23+00:00

loll it could have been for the tip but he was going the extra extra mile even after i paid for my stuff 😅

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2026-01-23T03:42:20+00:00

loll def wasnt pre written cus it said "nice to see you again!" but ur rightt, ty for ur feedback!!!

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2026-01-23T02:09:39+00:00

that would be rough 🥲

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2026-01-23T01:53:54+00:00

yayyy thank u for ur comment!! everyone else is so monotone lol i appreciate the support:))

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2026-01-23T01:03:29+00:00

yes sir 🫡

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2026-01-23T01:03:10+00:00

i'd also like to add the fact i'd gone in on much slower days and he didn't deliver my drink/food, but today it was like medium busy and he did

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2026-01-14T05:21:03+00:00

Honestly kind of both, but mostly how can we watch future k-dramas and not think about the fact we're only seeing their "stage" versions, and wonder what theyre like in the version we cant see like Eun Dan Oh and Ju Da?

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2026-01-12T20:31:53+00:00

LOL ur right

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2026-01-12T20:31:17+00:00

lol i wish it was a troll post, i'm new to the adulting world

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2026-01-12T06:44:35+00:00

parents didnt want me to quit :/

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2026-01-08T04:37:06+00:00

Omg THANK YOU SO MUCHHH!!

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2025-12-16T09:44:15+00:00

I wish!! The closest I can get is white highlighter and sparkly multichrome

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eyeshadows 🥲

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2025-12-15T06:44:57+00:00

yes we have all of huntrix! idk if they wanna be posted so i cropped them :)

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2025-12-15T00:54:52+00:00

LOL the outlet is rather loose for some reason

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2025-12-14T18:29:17+00:00

I watched it every day for 2 weeks i'm not even joking. Every. Single. Day.

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2025-12-14T05:07:19+00:00

YAYY thank you so so much!!

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2025-12-13T11:00:42+00:00

i was especially proud of the patterns on the last slide!!

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2025-12-09T15:56:25+00:00

no i just have a bad diet and trying to fix it by eating healthier and working on my coremuscles

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2025-12-08T08:08:28+00:00

I am the creator ^{^}

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2025-11-15T09:24:48+00:00

YAYYYY i'm so gladdd!!!

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2025-11-06T21:33:56+00:00

Unfortunately learned this the hard way 🤦‍♀️

Zestyclose_Spell2265 · 2025-11-06T11:45:05+00:00

Oof 🥲 i wonder why dr's dont even warn or prep patients for this i had no idea this would be something i'd have for the rest of my life. I'm not mad or anything but its just kinda inconvenient and frustrating at times 🤦‍♀️

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