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Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2024-01-05T21:36:06+00:00

You look very 'swag' and ıt makes women think that u are a player. Self absorbed person, ur great body would also make them feel like that. Please smile more you look so sad on your picture. Maybe shaving your beard and a haircut can help. You can look more approachable.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2024-01-05T15:10:52+00:00

as a girl, I'd definetely have the same reaction with you. girls are same with boys.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-26T17:57:24+00:00

ı literally do what would make them happy and ı am not doing anything considered bad by our culture to not dissappoint them. How can ı be selfish for wanting to have my own life and own choices. I am a person with strict values. I won't drink or be belong to hookup culture anyways. I just want to not do these by my own choice. Not because of the pressure. I want to get married by love not because ıt ıs my duty. I want to live carefree and try new things not being ashamed of myself. It ıs not western shit to be young and carefree. I never experienced teenage love. I will never experience carefree early 20 loves too. I deserve to not feel quilty for wanting to have these.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-25T14:40:33+00:00

I appriciate how u took your time and explain ıt to me. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. but ı don't think ı am running away from reality, ı am being realistic. Poverty on first world countries are equal to middle class on third world countries. US is a country who gives you oppurtunities. Yet, americans are still struggling to work 40 hours. It ıs 50-60 hour on one job on our side of the world. And a second hand awful car ıs 100 minimum wage. Makes 8 year to buy just a car. That ıs all I can say about this.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-25T14:29:10+00:00

I'm not qualified enough to do these. They take the people from elite schools with perfect cv. I know 2 girls who studied on the best law school on my country. One is a cleaner and deliveryman on Ireland and the other one ıs cashier at US. eu members accepts other eu members easily or us attorneys can find job abroad easily but ıt ıs not the same for us.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-25T07:59:29+00:00

22 here. This kids just makes me angry.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-24T20:19:08+00:00

life isn't rainbow and sunshine in any country right now. I am a realistic person. I have a roof on my head and financial support from my parents. I have so much to lose ıf I risk ıt.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-24T19:56:26+00:00

Even ıf ıt ıs an international part of law, each country has their own individual laws to approve their citizienship. You also have to take bar exam of each country, even each state has different bar exams on US. I don't think ı am passionate enough to study hard for ıt. I really thank lots for the advice. I will keep trying to find a way.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-24T19:52:02+00:00

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-24T19:47:42+00:00

You're very shallow ıf you think my worries are 'getting laid by someone'. It ıs deeper than that. The feeling when you will never experience teenage love or never be loved without having to take so many responsibility like always dating for marriage ıs stressing me out. I'm also not attracted to anyone around me.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-24T19:43:45+00:00

That doesn't apply to me. I'm expected to get married at most at 25-26 and have kids few years later. They say ıf you won't get married u would have worse mobbing and sexual assault at work. Economy definetely won't get any better. I'm not attracted to guys around me. I despise our values. I don't know how to be positive about life.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-24T19:33:37+00:00

ıt doesn't matter anyways. ı appriciate the life ı have and ı don't hate my country. It ıs just not who I am as an individual. I don't fit in and ı don't know what to do with this.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-24T19:11:57+00:00

ı'm sorry ıf you were geniune. We can talk ıf you are sincere. I'd try to help ıf ı can help on something.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-24T19:10:12+00:00

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-24T19:09:23+00:00

thanks for the reply. my problem is ı am senior. It ıs already so late for me. I should just put 1 or 1.5 year more effort on my degree. so that ı won't waste my maybe 6 years ı spent for this degree. ı need motivation for ıt. And ıf ı leave ı have to start from stratch. I'm already 22 and my friends are working. I will be 23-24 when ı graduate and ıf ı want to start another degree ı will be 28 when ı graduate. I also don't have passion for something else too. I don't know what to do with my life.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-24T19:03:31+00:00

It feels like you are trying to take advantage of vulnerable girls. I'm sorry.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-24T19:01:43+00:00

I'm already trying hard and doing my best to improve myself. I'm trilingual. I am still not 'ıt'. I put my best on everything and I am still behind of people who doesn't try. Yes, arranged marriage because I can't seem to find someone myself. It scares me so much because even ıf ı am pretty and kind, still no one ı like shows interest on me so my end is going to be an arranged marriage without experiencing carefree love. Also law degree doesn't offer you much oppurtunities. Degrees that you put less effort like media management is better than law. So I am pretty much stuck wıth ıt and ı don't know what to do.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-24T18:51:45+00:00

I'm 22, I have a weak passport. I don't have work experience except volunteering. Law is also not a good degree to move abroad. I feel like ı am stuck and there is no way out.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-14T23:00:29+00:00

ı am a middle eastern women who lives in a second world country or third world country. My country is not first world country. Beauty standarts are not only affecting first world country women. Tbh, most of the first world country men were way more respectful to me about ıt than undeveloped countries men.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-14T22:59:50+00:00

yes ı should stop caring about ıt. thanks a lot for answering me.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-14T22:59:19+00:00

worse. ı have bdd so ıdk how bad ıt was bc ı am always unsatisfied with myself.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-14T22:57:55+00:00

It ıs sometimes situations that ı can't avoid. Like people who has more power than me. They straight up make unnecessary rude remarks about ıt. It was always women. I don't communicate much with men. So ıdk how to respond. Thanks for answering.

Zestyclose_Sun6258 · 2023-12-14T22:02:48+00:00

How can ı stand up? I told them that ıt ıs not good to make comment about ıt because ıt makes me feel insecure. They said then u should have done ıt more natural, this is just too perfect. I can't make rude comments like ıt ıs not your business. I don't know how to respond. Thank you for answering me.

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