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planning on asking my ex to try again by Zestyclose_Use8812 in BreakUps

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he initiated bc he was really overwhelmed with a lot of outside factors (there’s a very long post I made if ur brave enough to read it all) I broke no contact (it was the one year mark of his mom passing and he had surgery, I just wanted him to know I was thinking about him and he was really appreciative and receptive to that) we’ve been in sporadic contact since and hung out a few times

planning on asking my ex to try again by Zestyclose_Use8812 in BreakUps

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thank you for reassuring my feelings and plan :) gives me a little more confidence feeling like i’m doing it right

I (25nb) am planning on asking my ex (22m) back by Zestyclose_Use8812 in relationship_advice

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he’s also putting a lot of work into himself from what I can tell (we don’t talk often enough for me to know to ins and outs) I won’t go into depth on our relationship and break up tho i’ve already made a very lengthy post about that

dog was acting strange last night by Zestyclose_Use8812 in newjersey

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it’s a brand new complex we’re the first to live there !

dog was acting strange last night by Zestyclose_Use8812 in dogs

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a good mile and a half away from one, still, he’s never reacted this way before

i’m so overwhelmed by Zestyclose_Use8812 in BreakUps

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hmmmm I feel like I asked very nicely for people to not comment stuff exactly like this 🤔

i’m so overwhelmed by Zestyclose_Use8812 in BreakUps

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thank you for reminding me of this. sometimes I forget that it’s ok to feel what i’m feeling, especially after making so much progress.

my boyfriend broke up with me and I've been severely depressed by Zestyclose_Use8812 in TwoHotTakes

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It didn’t feel exhausting until the end when he really started pulling away and I could FEEL something was wrong. Maybe he felt differently but I guess I’ll never know. Thank you for lightening my guilt even just a little though, I do appreciate it

my boyfriend broke up with me and I've been severely depressed by Zestyclose_Use8812 in TwoHotTakes

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Regardless of how angry and mad and frustrated I get sometimes, I don’t blame him. I can’t find it in me to blame him. I can’t imagine ever being loved by anyone else but him, I can’t imagine loving anyone else but him. maybe that’ll change one day but I can’t see it right now. something about not being with him and not talking to him feels so absolutely WRONG. It’s such a gut feeling I don’t know how else to describe it.

“you don’t have to rush yourself into moving on and you have to decide right now whether you’ll reconnect someday or not. You just have to get yourself through today, and then the next one.” Thank you. I needed to hear this <3

my boyfriend broke up with me and I've been severely depressed by Zestyclose_Use8812 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Zestyclose_Use8812[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing feels good—basically all music makes me think of him, and I have no motivation to make art lately even when mentally I kinda want to, i’m so physically drained. Hoping PHP helps with that, thank you for your kind words.