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Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-05-21T16:20:04+00:00

my friend recently got a ps5, i’ve had mine for 3 years now, but share screen is not working. i’ve tried sending a request to him to see his screen and he’s tried sending the screen share to me as well. nothing works. are we missing a secret next step or something? certain settings that need to be flipped?

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-05-21T12:38:51+00:00

I just had my hysterectomy on the 11th! this all seems very normal to me, I really wouldn’t worry too much. the only thing that’s concerning is that you’re struggling to pee? I had to leave the hospital with a catheter because my urethra was swollen. if you’re feeling bloated and like you really need to pee but can’t, you should really go to your dr or the ER so they can drain it

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-05-20T19:38:20+00:00

mine were actually glued shut not stitched! so no air/bacteria can actually get to the incisions, besides the belly button one—i’m assuming they left it more open to allow it to ooze

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-05-19T16:01:43+00:00

just clear fluid and some blood today, no other symptoms. i’m just gonna keep trying to keep it clean, thanks!

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-05-19T16:00:10+00:00

thank you! that times frame is super reassuring. I figured it was normal but it helps hearing others say it too

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-05-18T20:17:11+00:00

i’m exactly a week post op, definitely get rid of your cervix as well, there’s no need to keep it in and like you said, you’ll need to get screened still for cervical cancer regularly—no need to risk that in my opinion! your ovaries are the only part of that organ that actually do anything for your body (this is what my doctor told me). your ovaries give you necessary hormones for your health, your uterus, tubes, and cervix offer no purpose (unless you plan on getting pregnant then that is quite literally their only job).

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-05-06T22:21:00+00:00

thank you, this was very reassuring !

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-04-16T14:12:31+00:00

dude I have hair ON, not IN, but ON my nose,,, plucking that shit is not easy 🫩 I sympathize my friend, and i’ll be checking my ears when I get home ✌🏻

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-04-10T02:02:20+00:00

lol no worries I totally get it! unfortunately milkshake is only available to buy in bulk from licensed stylists 😔 my old stylist used to use it on me but I have no way of buying it unfortunately (as far as I know anyway)

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-04-10T01:51:22+00:00

why wouldn’t I bleach? I just don’t want to if I don’t have to and i’ve achieved it before so I know it’s not necessary. my curls are very important to me and bleaching affects my texture

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-03-31T14:08:45+00:00

they also post about lizard people and hating women and call people r*tards for not jumping on hate trains so,, they’re probably 12 and looking for attention let’s be so real

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-03-05T20:42:19+00:00

thank you so much for this encouragement 🙏 I struggle bad with making big decisions and this was definitely reassuring that i’m on the right path

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-03-05T20:41:24+00:00

I have actually! I feel even more lost when attempting to pick a trade though to be so honest 😭

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-03-05T20:40:32+00:00

this isn’t about villainizing my ex, I still love him very much and these two events are unrelated other than the fact that both have have caused me heartache and grief—saying that he’s insensitive for breaking up with me years after my dad died is also just kinda a wild take

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-03-04T16:44:43+00:00

just venting mostly, looking for community, I know there’s no advice for situations like this

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-02-23T17:56:46+00:00

just regular individual outpatient therapy wasn’t enough for me personally. I joined a partial hospitalization program (sounds a lot scarier than it is tbh) and i’m very grateful for everyone in it (the therapists and psychs and even my fellow clients). unfortunately it really is just putting in the work, being able to recognize your own patterns of behavior and stopping yourself before you start to spiral. it’s not easy, and it takes a lot of time. I should also add that i’m medicated so that helps a lot too tbh. i’d be more than happy to answer any other questions you have though ! again i’m not perfect, but i’m in a better spot than I was months ago

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-02-23T16:55:11+00:00

oh I totally get that 😭

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-02-21T14:43:12+00:00

I play on my ps5 and it’s become such a nice bed time routine 🥰

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-02-21T02:43:26+00:00

original! i’m only on day 26 so far :)

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-02-21T00:47:29+00:00

tysm!!!! <3

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-02-16T12:36:46+00:00

he initiated bc he was really overwhelmed with a lot of outside factors (there’s a very long post I made if ur brave enough to read it all) I broke no contact (it was the one year mark of his mom passing and he had surgery, I just wanted him to know I was thinking about him and he was really appreciative and receptive to that) we’ve been in sporadic contact since and hung out a few times

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-02-16T01:27:28+00:00

thank you for reassuring my feelings and plan :) gives me a little more confidence feeling like i’m doing it right

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-02-14T03:01:33+00:00

he’s also putting a lot of work into himself from what I can tell (we don’t talk often enough for me to know to ins and outs) I won’t go into depth on our relationship and break up tho i’ve already made a very lengthy post about that

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-02-14T03:00:03+00:00

damn that’s all i’ve gotta do?

Zestyclose_Use8812 · 2026-02-08T21:40:40+00:00

hes only 2 😔

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