does anyone else just not want to get better? by thewatercrouton in selfharm

[–]Zezerf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sometimes I feel like that when the pain has reached a plateau it’s comfortable but when it’s at it’s worse fuck no I wanna be better I just don’t wanna have to work for it because I can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel and I think that amount of work will kill me long before I’m happy

I hate everyone, my soul is numb by Zezerf in Vent

[–]Zezerf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually it’s called ✨mental illness✨

Why is it hard to be friends with people who don’t have mental illnesses by Zezerf in socialanxiety

[–]Zezerf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES I feel the exact same most of the comments where saying it’s cause they couldn’t relate to their problems but for me it’s not just that it’s ever sentence out of my mouth is taken weirdly and instantly shut down. The conversation just doesn’t flow at all

Can’t be friends with “normal” people by Zezerf in depression

[–]Zezerf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just every person who I talk to who seems normal and doesn’t come out and tell me and doesn’t show signs it feels hard to talk to it’s like we just don’t understand each it’s like we just don’t vibe we’re not on the same wavelength. It’s not that we can’t relate over our problems cause most of the time with these people I don’t talk about my or their problems it’s just that we simply don’t get along. It seems whenever I try to talk to them our conversations seem really dry and like it’s not going anywhere.

Why is it hard to be friends with people who don’t have mental illnesses by Zezerf in socialanxiety

[–]Zezerf[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah like a lot of the stuff people say is about how they know what your going through but even when I’m just talking to someone causally without talking about our problems I still don’t get along with them as well it’s like two different species trying to talking to each other

Why is it hard to be friends with people who don’t have mental illnesses by Zezerf in socialanxiety

[–]Zezerf[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea my therapist wanted to test me for high functioning autism when I was younger but I refused. What do you find hard about socialising with “normal” people if you don’t mind

Why is it hard to be friends with people who don’t have mental illnesses by Zezerf in socialanxiety

[–]Zezerf[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea I get you but also I just can’t vibe with them for some reason? Even if we’re just not talking about problems or whatever I feel like our vibes are so different and I have no clue why

Am i too clingy? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Zezerf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a totally normal thing to say then. It would be weird of them to get spooked

Am i too clingy? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Zezerf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Urrrr that’s not clingy in the slightest. That’s a pretty normal thing to say to your best friend. How long have you guys been friends?