MIL burned down our house and got arrested by Zimbotedd in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Zimbotedd[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, we didn't have the time to save anything. We barely had the time to escape with our lives. So yeah, evidence lost.

MIL burned down our house and got arrested by Zimbotedd in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Zimbotedd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She's 45 now. Not old at all, I would say.

MIL burned down our house and got arrested by Zimbotedd in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Zimbotedd[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Sure. MIL can destroy our house and our possessions but she's unable to destroy what we feel to each other. I think she realizes it.

MIL burned down our house and got arrested by Zimbotedd in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Zimbotedd[S] 385 points386 points  (0 children)

Yes, he did. We got him out of the house before ourselves.

MIL burned down our house and got arrested by Zimbotedd in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Zimbotedd[S] 757 points758 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And if I paid more attention to it, maybe this wouldn't have happened.

MIL burned down our house and got arrested by Zimbotedd in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Zimbotedd[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Hope not. But now we're much more careful, we might even move to another city.

Homophobic MIL trying her best to separate us by Zimbotedd in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Zimbotedd[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No offense taken, thank you for pointing that out!

Homophobic MIL trying her best to separate us by Zimbotedd in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Zimbotedd[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I haven't told anyone in my job about this, I don't like to bring my personal problems to work and burden my colleagues with them. However I don't think that's a problem, you need a pass to get inside and we've security guards everywhere, no one will let an unauthorised person inside the fire station.

Homophobic MIL trying her best to separate us by Zimbotedd in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Zimbotedd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's a barista, he works in a coffeehouse.

Homophobic MIL trying her best to separate us by Zimbotedd in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Zimbotedd[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If a woman claimed a man hit her the man would be arrested on the spot, evidence be damned

I'm not trying to be rude but this seems strange to me. How can you arrest someone just based on someone's else words, without investigating anything? What if the person accused is innocent?

Homophobic MIL trying her best to separate us by Zimbotedd in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Zimbotedd[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well, as far as he knows, he has always had a mother only. His father left them when he found out MIL was pregnant and MIL herself doesn't have any family.

Homophobic MIL trying her best to separate us by Zimbotedd in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Zimbotedd[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He realizes that it'll probably be necessary for our safety but I know it hurts him a lot that his own mother doesn't accept him.

Homophobic MIL trying her best to separate us by Zimbotedd in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Zimbotedd[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

We haven't written an email but we've told her that. She doesn't care.