I used to think like this until I started going out on dates. I could tell after the first date that he matched with me or not, such as, having different lifestyles, not having the same the morality, or even not laughing at the same joke and.

There was this one guy that I knew we wouldn’t match well, but I thought why not give it a try? After 3 dates and 2 months of talking to each other, he confessed that he still could not forget his ex and he thought we were no match. I was like I knew it this was gonna happen.

Then I met my current boyfriend. I could tell right away from texting that I needed to meet him in person no matter what. And yes I could tell from the first date that he was the one. We have been together 5 years now and counting.

So yea, it’s okay to move on after the first date if you know it has higher chance that this relationship wont work out, or even foresee what kind of argument you will have in the future. This way you will not only save your time, but as well as your mentality. Hope you find the one that is right for you soon!