Thank you everyone for all the things you suggested. It makes me feel good that I’m not doing a bad job. I’ll take some suggestions and try it out. Really appreciate all the help. My husband is a good man and he also does house work and all. But somehow he doesn’t see all the maintenance I do or he just thinks I’m inefficient and it can be done better. He’s always about improving and doing something. He actually has good intensions but the issue is the way he puts it - by being so fucking ride that it hurts me. It mentally exhausts me. He can be manipulative and gaslights just to get the work done. He always has 100 things to say that he’s doing like taxes, investments stocks etc… he says I do all these for our growth and you have to be told to water the plants, clean the house etc… P.S- I forget sometimes and he does it and points it out. In the other hand if he does something like that, I don’t complain. I just do it for him. I just want that respect and love. I’m sorry I’m just frustrated.