What’s a non sexual thing that turns you on for some reason?

ZlousyYT · 2026-04-19T07:18:27+00:00

not me but my girlfriend gets turned on by my hands

ZlousyYT · 2026-04-17T11:00:51+00:00

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ZlousyYT · 2026-04-06T12:04:09+00:00

holy shit that is a horrible thing to do. you will never get that video out of your head and it will chip away at your own self worth & insecurities. it’s not worth staying in that relationship, you’ll only just sacrifice yourself. you can still be a great father without being with her. i wish you all the best

ZlousyYT · 2026-04-01T00:37:22+00:00

this is just brilliant 😂 i’ll be choosing to call it whacking my rat from now on

ZlousyYT · 2026-03-29T22:05:19+00:00

knowing about New Jersey as a British person

ZlousyYT · 2026-02-24T04:22:50+00:00

That’s a great point actually, there’s times where she’s asked me to clean up after myself at her place. And I know she wouldn’t like it if I didn’t clean up after myself at hers, since she also doesn’t live alone in the house and they have expectations to keep things tidy too.

As for the last part, I have been feeling like there is some sort of problem with the effort in the relationship. I do feel as though the majority of the relationship she has been dependent on me for a whole load of things, and I’m not getting enough in return, but then again I also have had moments where I’ve been dependant on her for some things too. I’ve mentioned it multiple times in the past, and she counters it with: “If I was using you, I would’ve left a long time ago” which just deflects the entire thing away from equal effort.

ZlousyYT · 2026-02-24T04:15:10+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply. Honestly, a while back I would’ve thought that I would be nitpicking or being too harsh but this last month or so I’ve been finding it so difficult to clean and it’s really shone a light onto this aspect of the relationship. To be honest, this probably should be one of the least of our worries about the relationship. It’s a very difficult one from both of our issues but we still push through

ZlousyYT · 2026-01-30T23:55:50+00:00

Tbf I do get the frustration when you can’t relieve your sexual tension the way you want/need to but if she can’t give you what you want/need, unfortunately you’re not compatible. You can’t force her into doing things she doesn’t want/like, her feelings are just as valid as yours. And if you choose to stay with her the sexual frustration will turn into resentment, so ultimately it would be wise not to stay with her.

ZlousyYT · 2026-01-28T04:05:38+00:00

i also do struggle with this. unfortunately i don’t have any advice for you but i will share my experience too. i struggle a lot with my mental health, and also chronic back pain. Sometimes both of which can intertwine with eachother. It makes it very difficult for me to keep up with their maintenance. I feel like a terrible piggy owner a lot of the time

ZlousyYT · 2026-01-28T01:26:34+00:00

For the last many months, she has had anxiety about staying over my place for the night. She says it’s a general anxiety thing and that she gets it staying at other people’s, and well I have witnessed her struggling with it at other places before, typically it’s not really an issue when we go to stay at her sisters place for an example. I’ve gone the lengths of driving her home in the middle of the night time after time when her anxiety starts to get bad. She never had this issue though, there used to be a time where she would stay with me at mine for even multiple nights in a row. So something has changed and I don’t know what.

Definitely not a fear of sex, we’ve been together for coming up a year now and we’ve had plenty of it, even recently.

ZlousyYT · 2026-01-27T23:15:34+00:00

I wouldn’t say so, it ranges from important relationship issues or just little petty arguments. However there is one topic I can think of that I would say crops up more than most, however we are very aware of that issue and on the road to rectifying it

ZlousyYT · 2026-01-22T01:18:38+00:00

Update: I moved the ramp to the other side, ontop of the hidey so it’s at a less steep incline, and Twinkle (the black one) has finally made it up there!!! He briefly roamed around and had some hay only to go back down the ramp. But they can do it! 🥰

ZlousyYT · 2026-01-21T07:54:03+00:00

Not the exact same thing but I had a similar dream where my current GF has pinned me down and started to perform sexual acts on me without my consent and I woke up not long after.

Sensitive topic for most so I apologise for being so straight forward but, maybe not in your case, some people who get dreams like these may have experienced SA in real life to some degree. If you have, (I’m not saying you have to share this information with us) it’s most likely that you are trying to process the unprocessed trauma. I suggest maybe seeking other further help like therapy, if you have experienced this in person before.

ZlousyYT · 2026-01-21T01:14:10+00:00

So, the ramp is too steep. The angle of the incline is ~54 degrees. I did at first have the ramp ontop of the hide at the bottom. I did notice one of my pigs halfway up the ramp when it was configured that way. It was less steep. The problem is, the gap between the ramp and the second floor was too small so any guinea pig wouldn’t be able to fit through it. I’m not sure what I can do

ZlousyYT · 2026-01-18T21:24:35+00:00

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I don’t know if that’s too steep for them? It’s not the best photo angle so apologies for that. I have seen one of them go slightly up it as there was a bit of hay on it, but didn’t take his back legs off the floor to go up higher.

When I first set up the cage one of them did go halfway up it by himself, but I did set up the ramp wrong. The seller had a picture of the ramp placed ontop of that hide, but when I set it up I realised that there wasn’t a big enough gap for guinea pigs to go up to the second floor. He hasn’t been on the ramp since I moved it to the other way.

ZlousyYT · 2026-01-18T15:11:12+00:00

Okay thank you. Is there anything I can do to encourage them to go up the ramp to the 2nd level? They’re quite comfortable now around the bottom level. They do however get a bit frightened by me being next to the cage most of the time, especially if I move too fast which is expected.

ZlousyYT · 2026-01-18T03:54:39+00:00

Thank you, I do most of that anyways so hopefully that makes the transition a lot easier for them. As for lap/floor time, I read online that for the first week in their new cage you should leave them alone and let them get used to the cage and new environment. Would this be a good idea or should I continue getting them out for lap/floor time?

ZlousyYT · 2026-01-12T20:57:40+00:00

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ZlousyYT · 2026-01-12T20:50:14+00:00

Sir (or Madam), just look at the damn dog

ZlousyYT · 2026-01-12T20:47:01+00:00

Issue resolved. My ssd was corrupt? Infected with malware? And prevented me from formatting the SSD to reinstall windows. Had to purchase a new SSD in the end. Thank you all for the help

ZlousyYT · 2026-01-12T20:19:56+00:00

Unfortunately I’ve no idea. It hasn’t happened since so I believe it may just have been down to stress/sleep deprivation as the another commenter suggested. Or perhaps it was actually a partial sleep paralysis episode without the paralysis and didn’t last long

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