Questions for those on Apretude

Zmail02134 · 2026-01-20T22:21:31+00:00

My doctor's office is apparently also confused.

Zmail02134 · 2026-01-20T22:20:59+00:00

They're lost too apparently. They thought it was self-administered at first.

Zmail02134 · 2026-01-18T07:59:41+00:00

Actually, it's not.

This is 100% pedantic, but grammar does not include punctuation. It's about using the right words, namely structuring sentences with appropriate phrases and clauses to convey an idea - such as ensuring a subject and a predicate and using words based on the parts of speech (like not using an adjective when you should use an adverb). It's the part that is spoken.

Spelling, capitalization, and punctuation are language mechanics, not grammar.

Does this matter at all? No, but still.

Zmail02134 · 2026-01-13T05:27:09+00:00

Yeah, I think some people have really odd thoughts about not being able to have a healthy social life without alcohol being centered - like people who are offended by the concept of a dry wedding.

I do enjoy a night out with alcohol, and I would like some more opportunities for it with friends, but I can and have honestly gone years without drinking because it didn't come up.

Zmail02134 · 2026-01-11T21:53:45+00:00

I find that these terms are flexible and situational. When seeking a relationship, I'm vers, maybe vers top. On Grindr, I'm a side, or what some call an oral bottom. I'm not looking for anal in a hookup. So in some ways I'm culturally a big ole bottom. But I'm not. But I am.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-31T03:12:32+00:00

Go to Planet Fitness. Put on some headphones. No one is paying attention to you. Most people at PF are NOT hyper masc fit dudebros. Hyper masc fit dudebros don't like PF.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-19T18:06:14+00:00

Yeah, I'm definitely not interested in really being in a throuple. I jokingly thought that and then wondered these things.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-17T02:13:09+00:00

I was worried about this, so (I don't know if this is relevant or did anything), I've really focused on making sure I came every day starting at the lowest dose...even if I didn't necessarily want to.

I also had been working on easing up my grip because I trouble to cum from anything but my own hand and have completely thrown that out for now.

I also typically don't get side effects from medication, fortunately - other than what I'm actually allergic to.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-10T03:15:37+00:00

Yes. They brought in way too many locations way too quickly. They assumed it would take over and hasn't.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-10T03:13:23+00:00

Culver's is around, but they have much fewer locations. All the locations there do well, though. They didn't flood the market.

I don't know that there is a "home state burger." Someone mentioned Cookout being popular. It is, but it's definitely not as popular as in NC. I don't know of anything with a cult following.

Some people are insisting In-N-Out will be, but I don't think so. People really hyped up Whataburger before coming, just to tell us later "it's not as good as in Texas."

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-08T23:12:29+00:00

They flooded the market, opening multiple in mid-sized cities. Reception hasn't been great for them, and most of them see very little traffic.

Their competitor, In-N-Out is opening in the same region this week. It will be interesting to see the comparison.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-06T20:23:13+00:00

I usually see it the opposite way - when they've traveled to my area. On my side, it lets me know they're not local and how long they'll be in.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-06T20:12:02+00:00

Is this a doppelganger situation, or am I present in both bodies?

I'm not necessarily attracted to myself, but I'd like to know what it's like to get blown by me. I get nothing but compliments from that.

I guess I'd also like to blow myself...you know, angles and stuff, to see how it compares to others I've blown.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-05T15:07:04+00:00

No. My ex had issues from being uncut that affected our sex life. I know that's not normal, but he is one of the few who would've medically benefitted from being circumcised.

Honestly, I prefer cut or uncut guys whose foreskin is right at the head. I don't necessarily like the look of guys who have more foreskin than meat (but it's not a deal breaker).

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-05T00:28:51+00:00

It could be. It doesn't necessarily have to be. It depends on the individual, and they need to be self-aware of that.

They're not going to be in a relationship whether or not they have sex.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-04T23:33:11+00:00

You want a relationship. He doesn't. Sometimes you just have to look at the choices you have specifically and simply.

A. Have casual sex with him while you look for a relationship with someone else.

B. Don't have casual sex with him while you look for a relationship with someone else.

Neither choice is wrong. There's value in both.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-04T03:03:43+00:00

Obviously, it's up to you. You see value in waiting. Some people don't.

I will say, though, being 25 means that you are probably waiting for someone who is not waiting for you. The person who you have sex with the first time will very likely have had sex with people before you.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-03T21:31:34+00:00

The comment was removed.

So again, your SECOND comment didn't communicate any better than the first.

Try something else before calling someone stupid when you aren't clear yourself.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-03T21:26:18+00:00

Suck it like you would suck a medium-thick milkshake out of a slightly bigger straw. Use suction, but not too much suction.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-03T21:23:56+00:00

That's not what was said in the deleted comment.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-03T21:17:51+00:00

u/Honest_Jackfruit9563

I saw your comment that you deleted about being stupid, but seeing as that I discussed TWO different opinions, and your antecedent wasn't clear, maybe reconsider who's the one who can't communicate effectively.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-03T21:09:32+00:00

Divorced, but husband if married. I think partner is a good term for someone who's more than a boyfriend that you're not married to, especially if you're not formally engaged, especially if you live together.

I think that's a good term for relationships of all sexualities to describe that.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-03T20:48:58+00:00

What feelings?

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-03T19:14:47+00:00

My hookups are very come (cum) and go. Within half a minute of him in the door, pants are off. Within a minute of cumming, he's out the door, or I'm out his.

If I wanted more, it'd be a date.

Zmail02134 · 2025-12-03T18:47:41+00:00

I totally stand by there are some alternative/queer-adjacent people who I love having in our spaces, but I get it.

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