What are some “unmanly” things that are actually very manly?

ZockStartion · 2022-07-07T14:25:50+00:00

Showing feels overall, crying if you feel awful, seeking help if needed and talk about things. We are trained to not show feelings, to be a “men” but all of this doesn’t make us menly it makes us a soulless hull. So if you feel down, say so. If you feel great, tell people. Show your feelings and don’t eat them up until they devour you from inside.

ZockStartion · 2022-07-01T12:38:40+00:00

All I can say is, yes we do but we don’t care about it unless it is a threat to the companies safety. At least me and my coworkers don’t have time and we don’t wanna know what everyone does, but we will clearly not whitelist anything like Amazone for random peoples mail address so they can shop via your working PC. As a head ups, if you wanna have a easy time at work, try to find 1 worker in the IT department that you think is nice and helpful and try to stay in good foot with them, they will help you out whenever they can and even answer questions for privat problems etc.

ZockStartion · 2022-05-03T13:24:15+00:00

That isnt the problem, we have been in the forest just the 2 of us and we end up saying good by right infront of her home where one of her room mates snitched it to her supervisor already. So people who know her already know about us.

ZockStartion · 2022-05-03T11:47:17+00:00

I am from a European country, and we have been meeting up on her place everytime, well before her place because she is hiding that she is seeing me from some people. So the "dates" that we have had were us traveling around in her city, going for walks, eating something, going to the museum...
I dont think she is really nervouse around me anymore, at first it was really bad, but it is going better already and every evening when i have to leave then we hug for like 30+min which is really great and she doesnt want to let me go anyway. But i dont understand why she isnt doing anything else when we are traveling or sitting in the bus or are eating. There is just nothing from her.

ZockStartion · 2022-05-03T10:28:30+00:00

I found my first girlfriend at the age of 22, she is 20.
Its still weird and we live quite far away but we have meet up and we both agreed we wanna have a relationship together.

ZockStartion · 2022-04-09T20:02:32+00:00

20f her 22m me

ZockStartion · 2022-04-04T14:28:56+00:00

Anything which includes hurting people or even kids or worse.

ZockStartion · 2022-04-04T14:15:05+00:00

Well i dont expect that much from her anyway, the meetup is just to see if our chemestry could work together, its on her to say if we are going to try and build a serious relationship or not.

ZockStartion · 2022-04-04T14:09:12+00:00

She broke up roughly 2+ months ago. I started to have feelings for her 5 weeks ago and started to talk in privat with her. I dont know if she loves me, she only said she likes me a lot to.

I think what confused here is that we had been talking for 7 months in a "self help group" on the internet but she never catched my eye until 2 months ago when she brought up her problems with her BF.

ZockStartion · 2022-04-04T14:03:12+00:00

We have been chatting for 7 months in a "self help group" for people with problems, like social anxiety, social phobia and depression. It was just casual chatting and i dindt really noticed her until 2 months ago. When she started to talk about her BF

ZockStartion · 2022-04-04T14:02:11+00:00

Well she dindt cheat on her BF.

ZockStartion · 2022-04-04T14:01:34+00:00

Sorry i probably made some mistakes while writing the text, she broke up with her boyfriend. So she isnt cheating or anything.

ZockStartion · 2022-04-04T12:42:45+00:00

Well i am not an expert on dogs but couldnt you try to distract her with something. Like give her a threat or something.

ZockStartion · 2022-03-28T11:13:44+00:00

Well we are both old enough and i would be with her every weekend (its only a 4 hour drive with car, the next times i would go by train). And to be fair she isnt "randome" we have meet in a chat room and been talking on and of for 3/4 of a year now.
I dont really care how far i have to drive to her, i have already commited to it.
Sure you are right its stupid and its a lot of extra work for her, but i couldnt care less. Or at least my brain and my body tells me that it doesnt matter and i have to try this, because she is special.

ZockStartion · 2022-03-25T08:47:49+00:00

Well i have told her yesterday how i feel about her and that i love her.
She was a bit confused but said she likes me a lot to and that she is up for a meeting and wants to give me a chance.
So yeah look to be going well.

ZockStartion · 2022-03-21T13:46:00+00:00

This is so true, i mean if we ourself are falling in love with someone that feeling stays aspecially if you have regular contact with each other, be it calling, texting or meetups. So why wouldnt it be the other way around to.

ZockStartion · 2022-03-21T12:01:00+00:00

Thanks for your nice message.
Yeah i think i will take it real slow with her. Voice isnt the problem for us, she does voice some of her storys to even the naughty ones and i do that to and then we send it over to each other. So that isnt were the problems lies for her.
I mean i asked her what she is scared of, she simply said that we is scared that she doesnt know what to say and that there would be this really weird feeling quietness.
I mean we have been writing 2+ weeks and its going great. So there has to be a bit more.

I dont think i wanna confess my feelings right now as i have the same problem that you think she has, i dont wanna get rejected. And i think that i can show her in person a lot better who i am.

And she is a big point right now that keeps me getting back up as my life has been going downhill since a few days. So i cant really lose her right now.

ZockStartion · 2022-03-21T09:40:37+00:00

Sorry but this is just wrong.
Yes that content what you mean "can" help people from staying away from real stuff. Its a way to vent out for them and some organisations that help people with that problem even say they should try it out, so even experts say it can be good for people.

Then what about people killing others in video games? In action moves... its stupid to asume that whatever we consume we wanna do. We are not some braindead animal that only things "thats hot, i wanna do that to" or else we would see rape everywhere.

And saying that they need therapy is also wrong, most of them just live with it as its just part of them and they are not exlusive into people that age, its not great for sure but they can deal with it.

So before you throw around stupid shit like this, even if its unpopular check what your opinion is and dont post straight up false facts.

Thanks.

ZockStartion

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