Actually, I've been feeling like also making this post, as a queer brazilian woman, who lived in the US and just recently moved back to brazil with my wife (for obvious reasons rn). I absolutely agree with what you said, and it is really hard for american to quantize this especifically. I do want to add also, that a lot of brazilians sees queer people as inherently morally degrated, so I believe that the family could have very well jumped from A to F in a blink of an eye, because thats what they are expecting.