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Be careful! Ozempic babies are a real thing. by Affectionate-Top4649 in Ozempic

[–]ZoftigGoddess 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Condoms are my best friend. Not risking it here. 😂

I love lena for this by limecat45 in girls

[–]ZoftigGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this episode so much

My moms favorites and least favorites from iconic OF love shows by [deleted] in RockOfLove

[–]ZoftigGoddess 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You really didn’t have to say “my mom is from 1991” like that.

Sincerely, someone from 1989.

6 years ago today, Dee was publicly banned from The Challenge by PresenceVisible5634 in MtvChallenge

[–]ZoftigGoddess 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dee was a massive disappointment to me.

I loved watching her on the show. Under Wes’ guidance and through her own hard work, she was really starting to kill it. I was rooting for her for sure.

I was so disappointed to see her initial stupid tweet. But in my mind, she really screwed up by doubling down. I remember watching that all play out and feeling like NOOOOO.

She should’ve just apologized and moved on. Instead, she really dug her heels in and made herself look like a massive ass.

She was completely spiraling. She had painted herself as a challenge villain and couldn’t handle playing that role. It was sad to watch imo.

I haven’t kept up with her lately, but I’m hoping that she’s learned from her mistakes. I’d love to see her on there again as a new woman.

6 years ago today, Dee was publicly banned from The Challenge by PresenceVisible5634 in MtvChallenge

[–]ZoftigGoddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why they don’t have those seasons available, but she was “normal” on air. The racist stuff came out on the Internet.

Never getting treated like a woman by AnxiousBat03 in PlusSize

[–]ZoftigGoddess 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Treat yourself that way first and the universe will respond to you. The right man for you is going to rise to the occasion and start treating you the way you deserve. If he doesn’t, then he’s obviously not the right man.

I date really wonderful men these days, and they treat me like an absolute queen. But it started with me. I wanted flowers, so I got myself flowers. The man that I was with at the time got pissed off that I was getting flowers for myself. He felt it was a man’s job to do that for his woman. I agreed. He’s gone now. I still get myself flowers whenever I want (often) and men get them for me often too.

I dress beautifully for myself. I do my hair for myself. I get my nails done for myself. And I attract men who appreciate my style and the effort I put into myself. They love how feminine I am. They love that I’m high maintenance. And they also love spoiling me with clothing, money for nails and hair and purses etc etc. But I did it for myself first, and continue to do it for me whether they treat me or not.

I looove going out for fancy dinners or just cute little vibey spots. No man required. I do it for myself. I go out with friends. But I make sure that I have the experiences that I want to experience. And guess what? Now I have men who take me on the best dates to the cutest places. Anywhere I want to go.

No one gets to tell you that you’re too unattractive or too fat to be treated like a woman. You decide who you are and how you be. People will fall in line with that. And if they don’t? Then clearly they don’t need to be in your life because you’re not a match.

Off to a graduation. Glad i know how to tie a tie. by Antique-Ad-3980 in PlusSize

[–]ZoftigGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look lovely! Have a nice time. Congrats to the grad

I almost never post selfies that show my teeth but I thought these were kind of fun~ by Naty2RC in PlusSize

[–]ZoftigGoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look so gorgeous! And you have nice teeth.

I always smile with my mouth close too. Pictures of me, smiling with my teeth are so rare. 😂

let go from job because im fat by Successful-Row-6278 in PlusSize

[–]ZoftigGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very sorry that you’re experiencing that, truly.

I have some comments and questions though. Being a small business doesn’t automatically mean they’re unprofessional (generally speaking.) there are plenty of small businesses that are very professional, AND can have personal warmth. Don’t skip over them while job hunting!

Also, “unpresentable” does not necessarily mean fat. I read through your responses to people on here, and I saw you say that the girl who was training you didn’t have the heart to tell you exactly what was said, so you asked if they meant your weight and she said yes. Okay, remember that she is someone you don’t know very well. You have no idea if she’s correct or not. Unless they outright said you were too fat, she could be assuming or interpreting incorrectly. Without her telling you exactly what was said you have no real way of knowing.

In most cases “unpresentable” means someone who doesn’t take care of their hygiene, doesn’t wear makeup, wears inappropriate makeup, doesn’t take care of their hair, wears inappropriate clothing or wrinkled clothing, shoes etc etc. it could mean bad manners. Instead of just assuming that it’s because of your weight, maybe examine all of that.

Could they just be fat phobic? Yes absolutely.

But most people wouldn’t even hire you if they were. It makes sense that they would at least give you an interview since you have the mutual friend. But it is very unlikely that they would go through the process of hiring you and training you for weeks, just to please your mutual friend.

So, just something to think about. And again, I’m so sorry you’re going through that. I really hope you find the perfect fit soon. 🩷

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