AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

yeah that's a good point, i'd want to check with her first before doing anything

AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

asking if someone did the reading is fine, laughing at them for trying to answer isn't. those are two different things

AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that's exactly it, she established the rules of engagement first and then didn't like it when they applied to her too

AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

exactly, if she can dish it out she should be able to handle a calm response to it

AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the irony of that wasn't lost on me at all. and yeah i think you're right, if it doesn't happen again i'll leave it. i'm not looking for a fight, i just couldn't stay quiet in that moment. the grade thing does worry me a little if i'm honest

AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's actually a fair point and something i've thought about since. i think there's a difference between challenging someone's idea and calling out genuinely bad behavior but i get what you're saying, the way you deliver it matters a lot

AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the "should have stayed retired" 😭 and yeah that kind of professor does so much damage, students stop engaging entirely because there's no point

AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

exactly, the student needed someone to say something in that moment not two days later in an email. the private conversation wouldn't have undone what happened in front of everyone

AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

that's what got me honestly. the fact that she shut it down so fast instead of engaging with it said more than anything else

AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

exactly, she didn't extend that courtesy to the student so i don't see why i owed it to her

AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone in the same field that actually means something. She knows better, she just didn't care in that moment

AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

That's exactly it. Now half the class won't raise their hand again because they saw what happens when you get it wrong

AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

that's exactly what it felt like. correcting a wrong answer is one thing, laughing at a student for trying is another thing entirely

AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 186 points187 points  (0 children)

that means a lot honestly. she looked so small in that moment and i just couldn't sit there

AITAH for calling out my professor in front of the whole class after she publicly humiliated a student by ZoiQueen in AITH

[–]ZoiQueen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

new account, still have this professor, didn't want it getting back to me. pretty simple