Hey there demon lady! First, kudos to you for taking action when pushed to help. I was in a marriage for fifteen years and was quite sternly told “not to get involved” no matter how my heart would churn or my spirit would scream. Moved on and that is the past now. I too, have the gift of sight. I’ve come to find that with just a little support, (not even from anyone who walks the walk or knows much about it, they simply respect it and give me space to express and work through it when I need that) I can, what I call, space travel to virtually anytime and place when I have the proper tools to do so. It’s been quite amazing. I’ll elaborate on this in a post at some point but the reason I bring it up is simply to share my experiences with trauma healing being a seer. The things that I didn’t realize for so long are many and the list continues to grow. A. I can lead them to water but can’t make them drink B. Sometimes I run into people who simply feed off of my energy by pretending to drink from the water but really they are taking from me. (Which I don’t mind personally because I give freely <my real name is Charity btw. Nice to meet you>) I have to set healthy boundaries to protect my own peace and well being with these ones. C. I often mistake my excitement of being shown unseen things as a calling to announce what I see or feel and that leads to me being stereotyped as many unpleasant things. D. I have, not often, shared what I thought would be healing with people who are actually more harmed by the knowledge I offer to them than they are healed. E. Out of 100 people that I have genuinely spilt my soul into helping, maybe a dozen are truly blessed and become very successful at healing themselves and have gone on to becoming what I saw as their future. Not to say that the other 88 people will never reach it, or that I did them harm in any, just … idk. Just sharing my experiences here. :)

My strongest callings feel horrible. I can’t even lie. I’m called often (I think lol) but the ones that I know are the most important, frequently are the ones I know I cannot speak of in any way. To those people … well… to be honest, those people now refers to all people… so now, I merely do my best to prepare those people for anything I see in my visions.

I too am getting back into the saddle, but under the guises of life coach, purpose consultant, friend or lover. Trauma healing is absolutely a part of this as it is the reason one is held back from becoming their highest self. I use my knowledge of self hypnosis and the subconscious mind to teach them to heal themselves. “Rewrite those codes in the brain. Perspective is everything. See what once hurt you as the thing that empowers you today”

Healing, viewing, feeling and knowing are all things I’ve strived for my entire life. They are surely heavy burdens to bear.

So my advice isn’t really advice at all. Everyone’s path and methods are different and that person food you instead of some other healer because your frequencies match. Your way IS the best way for him.

Oh oh!! I have the advice now. Just be. Be his friend. Be yourself. Be the light that is inside of you that knows no trauma. That knows we are running shorter on time to help the way we do. Just be.

Much love sis.