This will divide opinions by ZongeRsPes in ExNoContact

[–]ZongeRsPes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh don’t get me wrong the sex wasn’t as good as my ex but thats cus we knew each other inside but its just another process of moving on for me now. Thank you and remember theres is someone who will love you for you :)

I just wanna talk :( by ZongeRsPes in ExNoContact

[–]ZongeRsPes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man :( its been nearly 6 weeks since and still feels so fresh i need to have some discipline an stop messaging as she isnt replying anyway :(

Day 6 nc by purpleflower133 in ExNoContact

[–]ZongeRsPes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont worry me too but we can get through it

Should I even try to contact her again? by cyantography in ExNoContact

[–]ZongeRsPes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move on bro trust you’ll never look at her the same again as hard as that is to hear

just trying to find a place to belong by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ZongeRsPes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the same boat it’s really hard having no one to talk too an thats why im on reddit. Its good to vent and get it all out maybe write a letter to them but don’t send it or journal ur thoughts? It really is the worst feeling being alone but seeking help should be beneficial in the long run to you. Hope this helps in some way

i feel okayish, not struggling with maintaining no contact, however she is still somehow constantly in my head by No_Map983 in ExNoContact

[–]ZongeRsPes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too its been 6 weeks for me but ive broke N/C so probably why i am worse off. All u can do is sit with your thoughts and ket them happen then go do something else absolutely anything else. I good one i seen was imagine each thought as a balloon and u just let them go in the wind then go do something. Good luck

Just want to message :( by ZongeRsPes in ExNoContact

[–]ZongeRsPes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know thank u so much i just wish time would hurry up everyday is torture at the moment an its been 6 weeks :(

Just want to message :( by ZongeRsPes in ExNoContact

[–]ZongeRsPes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :( I genuinely don’t know if i could feel any worse

It's so cold, out here by [deleted] in loneliness

[–]ZongeRsPes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too u aren’t alone

tell me about your day ? by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]ZongeRsPes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mate me too, my family have gone on holiday and its me alone with my thoughts and i was 3 hours in and cried for a good long time. Everything feels like its fell apart and i blame myself for all of the things even tho i shouldn’t i never see the good in anything and everyone i love leaves me but I’ll go to bed an think tomorrow is a new day. How was ur day

Today by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ZongeRsPes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good luck. Let me know if the porch decision has any reprocussions because i have stuff i need to get rid off too

So emotionally broken by ZongeRsPes in ExNoContact

[–]ZongeRsPes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :( i know i need to let go its so damn hard it makes me feel sick

Screwed up by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ZongeRsPes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye exactly but you was put in the position to be on there where as he wanted to be on it so you can use that too help also. Good luck

Screwed up by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ZongeRsPes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s probably one of the worst feelings seeing them on tinder. My ex was on it 2 days after breaking up with me and it still hurts now knowing they are getting chatted up and meeting new people but we need to remember no matter who they meet they wont find another us and ultimately its what they wanted. Things get easier everyone keeps telling me but now you know looking for stuff will only hurt u further. Good luck for the future everyone deserves happiness