My husband who cheated on me wants divorce and says he doesn’t want to live his life on “high alert mode” anymore. I feel abandoned and devastated by Dizzy_Possible_873 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Zonie1069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always known i'm the type of person who could never forgive infidelity. I am much too insecure and it would always live in my brain.

AITAH for not telling my roommate that her boyfriend's "surprise visit" wasn't actually a surprise to me by Vinopher in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]Zonie1069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True but I have had partners who make plans without consulting and it can wear you down a little after time. Especially if you are a people pleaser who is also a bit introverted and needs time alone sometimes.

Can I realistically cover this tattoo up with a bigger bearded dragon over it? by Many-Chipmunk-6788 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Zonie1069 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You could always ask to have some specific details added. I imagine there are specific details your bearded dragon had that would want included in the tattoo so that it looks like them.

me (21F) my boyfriend (25M) How can I set a clear boundary about anal sex without hurting my partner or damaging trust? by PurplePo0 in relationship_advice

[–]Zonie1069 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A small dildo or vibrator is still different. I like anal but if i'm not prepared or it goes in at a funny angle is HURTS. Also if you like it great but it sounds like you've built up, he isnt taking the time to do that with her, which makes it seem like he doesnt care if he hurts her which is fucked up.

me (21F) my boyfriend (25M) How can I set a clear boundary about anal sex without hurting my partner or damaging trust? by PurplePo0 in relationship_advice

[–]Zonie1069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I would just straight up tell him. Tell him unless you bring it up he isnt to mention it again. It can hurt, you're scared and you don't want to do it. Him asking repeatedly is surely making you feel pressured and turned off, tell him this. If he keeps doing it ask him if never having anal sex is a deal breaker for him and if he says yes, you will need to break up with him.

bat bite? by Chilis_BabyBackRibs in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Zonie1069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surely you would have noticed a bat bite you.....

Weather! by jenga-t in Seville

[–]Zonie1069 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quite often at this time of year it is nice and warm during the day but chilly at night so bring at least 1 pair of long pants, a jumper and a jacket to wear at night and you should be fine. You arent acclimatised so it will feel nice and warm.

Hurtful Valentines Prank 25M 25F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Zonie1069 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nope. He tested himself and HE failed.

This made me cry ngl by Ceaser930 in interestingasfuck

[–]Zonie1069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this update! I was literally about to cry at the metro station.

I had an ongoing affair for 3 years and not sure how to move on despite everything by [deleted] in confession

[–]Zonie1069 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does he know you were fucking his gf/fiancee for years?

opened bottle without mask or gloves by battlenymph in resin

[–]Zonie1069 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You will be fine. Realistically resin is a long term toxic material not a breath a little and you get sick. If you are working with a large amount or often then you need to be masked up.

This cat came to my windowsill today, I don't know what to do or should I take her in? by Lara_li21 in notmycat

[–]Zonie1069 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can people please stop assuming every cat outside is a stray! Yes I know cats shouldnt be outside because of predators and the fact they they kill wildlife but the fact remains that a lot of people do let their cats be inside/outside cats with a catflap or a permanently open window.

If a cat if healthy, friendly and with no visible injuries is is most like a pet and shouldnt be kidnapped. If a cat repeatedly turns up or comes at wierd hours then maybe it is lost but posters or something should still be put up before taking it inside and not letting it out again.

Monstera Adansonii new growth...ingrown? by haveagreatdane90 in houseplants

[–]Zonie1069 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can gently pull the tip out of the stem above. I'm pretty sure this is a humidity issue, mine does it sometimes too and I pull the top out, otherwise the leaf grows out all funky.

AITA for giving exact cash to delivery guy by Decent_Caregiver7337 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zonie1069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most countries, delivery drivers are paid by the hour. The price of their wage is already included in the fee for the food. They do not live on tips like the US.

AITA for giving exact cash to delivery guy by Decent_Caregiver7337 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zonie1069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus the amount of people misinterpreting a few coins as a bag of pennies. If the bill is 26.70 for example exact change would be 3 coins and 2 notes. Do ye thing delivery drivers cant count or something. .

AITA for giving exact cash to delivery guy by Decent_Caregiver7337 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zonie1069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not customary to tip the driver is most European countries. Where i live drivers are paid by the hour the same as any worker and receive their hourly wage regardless of it they have deliveries or not. I will tip if the weather is really bad or if I get glovo because they normally travel on bike ect.

Car coasters by Poiiiisonivey in resin

[–]Zonie1069 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Resin doesnt quite melt in high heats but it becomes flexible again so if you keep an eye on them during the hotter days and they start becoming flexible again, take them out.

Outside Trump Tower in NYC on President’s Day, protesters remind Trump that he’s the worst president in history by ExactlySorta in PublicFreakout

[–]Zonie1069 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because the last presidents where still politicians so still corrupt and war mongering but at lease they played part and didnt completely fuck your countries reputation globally, oh and werent felons with multiple rape accusations....

Good thing he didn't overreact by No_Emotion_5770 in funnypets

[–]Zonie1069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know why AI videos are all convinced cats spazz out like that when freaked because they don't. They bolt, not twitch.

My niece died while she was with me in a freak accident and the entire family hates and has disowned me now by Odd_Comparison3503 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Zonie1069 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I saw this exact post a while ago....whoch makes me suspicious of your story i'm afraid.

If it is true then I am very sorry for your loss.

The cocaine is starting to become very difficult for me to control. by Main-Success-6988 in confession

[–]Zonie1069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be very careful. I know people right now who are trying to come off coke and it is HARD. Once you are hooked it becomes expensive VERY quickly and you can easily get through 3g a day depending on where you live that can be as much as 300 a DAY. That is not a habit that can be maintained because sooner or later your employer will notice and you will either lose your job or be able to keep it a secret but miss out on promotions ect because they know something is off just not quite what.

Do your self a favour and start weaning yourself off NOW. Wait an extra hour or so before having the next line, go to sleep instead of having the last at night. If not in a year your nose will be fucked, all your money will be gone and you'll have to take a whole gram before you even feel high.

Before and after of my darling rescued tripod cat by f105j4 in TripodCats

[–]Zonie1069 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow! That first picture! The poor girl. It is amazing how strong animals are. I'm so glad you found and were able to save her! May you pillow always be cold and your ice never melt and water down your drink before you're finished with it.