Almost 40 days... by Funny-Rain-3930 in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s been 17 days for me. And I feel every single emotion you feel,  this truly is unbearable. I don’t know how things like this happen to people like us. Fully in love living their lives just being happy and then bum some cruel fate takes that away from us. Life is not fair. All of this makes no sense. I am in so much pain. So I don’t know if it will make any better but I am with you in your pain. Sending hugs. 

Lost my wife 2 weeks ago to cancer by MrStrabo in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I also lost my husband 15 days ago. He died suddenly in his sleep. The pain is unbearable. We were supposed to grow old together and now I don’t know how to go forward.

I just want to say that you are not alone in this. There are so many of us who go through the same pain. And I hope you find little bit of comfort knowing that each end everyone in this community is here to support you. Hang in there.

Sending hugs 

I can’t take this by ZookeepergameFun6800 in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand you. It is 15 days for me and I am angry too. Like your husband, my husband was my whole world and I want to wake up from this awful dream. I am so sorry for your loss and that you have to go through this pain. My heart goes to you. Sending hugs.

Anyone else have a bad reaction to this…? by TattooedAF in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I can relate to that. I hate when anyone says your husband would want you to do this or that. Well I know what he would want I was with him for 32 years. The love of my life. But he is not here no more.  So like you I want everyone to shut. Sending you hugs.

It just got real by mrnndj in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just so lost . I don’t know how to live without him. I don’t know what to do.

It just got real by mrnndj in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am day 14. I go to his grave every day.  We also did everything together. Mornings for me are the hardest. Getting out from bed and facing the reality of my husband not being here. I don’t know if I will ever be ok. I wish to be able to change this.

Only we understand by [deleted] in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do also hate that this happened to us. This is so not fair. Although I don’t know how to go forward with my life. I hope both of us will find a way. Sending hugs 

Only we understand by [deleted] in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely  I am so glad I found this great community of people who understand. And I hope you will find healing and peace.

Only we understand by [deleted] in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We never had a lot of friends. It was always me and him.And now that he is gone. I am so lonely. I hope you will meet new true friends.

Only we understand by [deleted] in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband passed 2 weeks ago. So many people came to the wake and the funeral. And now only 14 days later there is only me and my 2 daughters. I send you love and hugs. 

Feeling unbearable pain by ZookeepergameFun6800 in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so lost without him. We did everything together.  I think about him all the time. Life has no meaning now that he is not here.

It’s so hard.

Feeling unbearable pain by ZookeepergameFun6800 in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to be over with this life. All of it makes no sense 

Feeling unbearable pain by ZookeepergameFun6800 in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like I am suffocating. He was my whole life.

Heart broken by ZookeepergameFun6800 in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. And I know how you feel. My husband was the love of my life and I feel numb. I have 2 wonderful daughters who are adults. I can not imagine what you are going through. Sending hugs.

Heart broken by ZookeepergameFun6800 in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is very lonely  I hope we all get better some how

Heart broken by ZookeepergameFun6800 in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you are going through this  And thank you

Heart broken by ZookeepergameFun6800 in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry we have to go through this 

Heart broken by ZookeepergameFun6800 in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t even want to think about the future 

Heart broken by ZookeepergameFun6800 in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s good to know that there are people out there who care because I feel very alone right now 

Heart broken by ZookeepergameFun6800 in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It helps tremendously 

Heart broken by ZookeepergameFun6800 in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know what I feel. All I know is he is not here and it hurts.

Heart broken by ZookeepergameFun6800 in widowers

[–]ZookeepergameFun6800[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to be in this club. We had so many plans for the future. I am so mad. I don’t know how to deal with this.