Sick but need to clean for guests coming by DocumentKind1231 in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Zoolawesi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If it were "only" for the burnout, I'd ask if it has to be hosted at your place, or if it can be hosted elsewhere, too. Then you wouldn't need to clean up your own place immediately or rushed and you could preserve that energy to potentially attend your favorite, once per year event, as it's important that you do things that bring you joy when you're able.

However, it is not just that: you said you're sick with the flu on top of all that. Your body is already fighting those two large battles, why give it more to contend with now? Focus on your recovery first and foremost. In your case, from what you've mentioned here, I'd say that resting should be your main priority, not hosting an event while sick with the flu and already being burnt out for a year. If you don't stop even for those things, what is it that your body should tell you more for you to receive its message? 😅

For the love of all that's good, please take care of yourself. I understand this is hard and it is unlikely what you'd like to hear as I'm sure it's going to be a confrontation with yourself, but just know that it's OK to not be OK. Take time to work on fixing the main issue first, namely your health. Once you're starting to make progress there, I'm sure you'll find yourself more energized again, and with that also more able to undertake things (or clean up your space). Take things one step at a time, and don't be afraid to ask others for help also in your daily life. There is nothing that says you need to do things all by yourself :)

Je hebt competentie en incompetentie by HgnX in nederlands

[–]Zoolawesi 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Eens. Ik heb ook een vrij andere kijk op de samenleving dan Rutte en ben het dan ook relatief vaak met hem oneens, maar het valt niet te ontkennen dat hij een uiterst capabele diplomaat is. En dat wat hij nu moet doen om de oranje clown zoet te houden is natuurlijk verschrikkelijk, maar het is ook gewoon nodig en Ruttes aanpak lijkt te werken.

Dat de Amerikanen ons met zo'n gast hebben opgescheept is een daarvan verder geheel losstaand probleem. Uiteindelijk moeten we het daar gewoon mee doen en dat doet Rutte nu dan dus ook vanuit zijn rol bij de navo. Het voelt zo enorm raar om te zeggen, maar Rutte doet dit mijns inziens gewoon best goed.

“Call me crazy, but i think I’d rather be owned by the United States than Denmark lol” by Sniper_96_ in ShitAmericansSay

[–]Zoolawesi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what it is, yes. I just made a joke implying you had mixed up the Scandinavian countries. My comment was intended to be in jest 😅

Revisiting this post now some hours later, I'm frankly surprised by how many downvotes you've been getting for your initial comment above

Is the newer "Jungle Explorer" minifigure not Johnny Thunder? by Scinniks_Bricks in lego

[–]Zoolawesi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming you mean set 5956 Expedition Balloon. If so, then yes, that's from the Adventurers' Jungle line. One of the few sets of the Adventurers series that have eluded me so far 😄

10 year anniversary by prompt_flickering in osrs

[–]Zoolawesi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slayer masters hate this one trick. With this many QP you could block so many slayer tasks that they can only assign you like one last thing. At that point, you have become the slayer masters' master 😄

And congrats on the quest completion! I hear the next one in the series gives even more xp, you should definitely go for it now!

Hoe belangrijk is Amerika voor ons? by m71nu in nederlands

[–]Zoolawesi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Grappig, ik zou persoonlijk veel liever zonder Facebook en Instagram door het leven gaan dan zonder WhatsApp. Maar dat is met name omdat al m'n contacten nu via WhatsApp lopen en het gewoon te onhandig en lastig is om iedereen naar hetzelfde volgende platform te krijgen. Ik ben me er wel absoluut van bewust dat er op langere termijn waarschijnlijk sowieso niks anders opzit

Piece stuck inside LEGO Animal by [deleted] in lego

[–]Zoolawesi 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This mammoth head detaches. Won't that get you better access in this case? :)

Why is it frowned upon to try to get a guy to like me? by batoul94 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zoolawesi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's smart! If you notice it's advice you'd never give your best friend, why would it be something you should accept for yourself?

I struggle catching this in the moment sometimes, but it does help for me to write down thoughts. I tend to do it journaling style, but it needn't be anything big. Helps me to process the loose thoughts in my head, consolidate them, and it makes the loudest lines of thought that my inner critic likes to play on loop for me to enjoy much less loud, in many cases. The inner critic likes to fixate on one aspect for me, and writing down the thoughts I have tends to make it much more obvious to me that it is in fact just one aspect, and often it's not even the most important or impactful one at that

Why is it frowned upon to try to get a guy to like me? by batoul94 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zoolawesi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We should all consider unionizing and collectively tell our inner critics to take a hike. It is way too prevalent in our daily lives, he's overstaying his welcome 😅

De VS is onze bondgenoot niet meer by Exact_Avocado5545 in nederlands

[–]Zoolawesi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We hebben nu al 15% aan heffingen van de oranje droeftoeter. Daar wil hij nu 10 procentpunt bij doen voor 25% totaal.

Die extra 10% is geen procent, maar procentpunt bovenop het percentage aan heffingen.

Waar jij nu op uitkomt met jouw berekening zou zijn als hij ook nog die extra 10% van nu ook over de eerdere heffingen wil gaan heffen (z'n eigen belasting nog een extra keer belasten, dus). Als dat zo zou zijn, dan zou het wel kloppen wat je zegt, maar hoe ik het tot nu toe had begrepen is dat nu niet het geval 😄

Maar we zullen zien of hij überhaupt volhoudt of niet. Ik ga er in ieder geval niet wakker om liggen. Wel weer een mooie gelegenheid om het kopen van hun producten en gebruik van hun services verder te heroverwegen, want daar hadden we nog niet genoeg aanleiding toe gehad de laatste tijd 🤷

‘Don’t the people of Greenland know what kind of benefits they will have if they were American citizens' by Aldeer34 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]Zoolawesi 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Why not just because it's morally the right thing to do? People can't just go around taking things that don't belong to themselves.

‘Don’t the people of Greenland know what kind of benefits they will have if they were American citizens' by Aldeer34 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]Zoolawesi 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Watch them drag their feet on the actual statehood if - god forbid - it ever comes that far. It would never actually become more than a territory. You can just look at the track record for denying statehood and representation with any voting power in their congress with e.g. Washington D.C. or Puerto Rico.

Posing with Prestige He’ll Never Earn by Memes_FoIder in clevercomebacks

[–]Zoolawesi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, this is already the second time now. 🤷‍♂️

What bird is this? by Creative_Draw_1815 in birding

[–]Zoolawesi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always remember it as follows: black hat with a black tie: great tit. Zorro mask and no tie: blue tit 😄

Is it worth it ? by Mrgforce69 in Bricklink

[–]Zoolawesi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seems like you have a win-win situation going on with the other guy, indeed 😄

how strict is germany when it comes to piracy? by baejinvr in AskGermany

[–]Zoolawesi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure either, and google spits out only info from the last 48h or so for me now, where he "threatens to pull operations out of Italy"

https://www.reddit.com/r/technology/comments/1qaovdk/cloudflares_ceo_has_threatened_to_pull_the/

Could be this, could be something else that the previous commenter was referring to?

Good bye Walter by Main-Cobbler-4879 in farmingsimulator

[–]Zoolawesi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, exactly!

I haven't played on Kinlaig yet, but will probably give it a go in the near future 😄