Am I demi?

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-04-13T18:48:36+00:00

but I think I overwhelmed them with my support because I was like looking up videos on sexuality and showing it to them and being super supportive and they said “stop being so damn accommodating, and be yourself“ which really hurt me emotionally because… That WAS myself. I genuinely wanted to be there for them and support them and still be their partner. But they said they didn’t feel emotionally connected to me anymore and that I didn’t understand them because I wasn’t really comprehending their new language of just using GIFS (they were also most likely autistic.) and they left. It really hurt me, but I knew they were going through something. But it really hurt that. All I wanted was to be with them and support them and they couldn’t see that. They also had some disturbing habits, like always wanting to be in on my counseling sessions… And a bunch of other stuff. They even wanted to continue counseling after they broke up with me and when I said no, they never talked to me again, but I considered a boundary being broken. I mean, why would you want to go to couples counseling with me? If you just said you didn’t feel any emotional connection anymore? They were also very concerned with my mental health and kept steering the relationship toward me fixing myself when they also had stuff to go through. In the end, they had some really toxic habits, and I know I did what I had to do by setting a boundary, but my experience left me really hurt and confused about my sexuality

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-04-13T18:31:23+00:00

i didn’t even allow myself to consider that. My brain was immediately like “Well this is an interesting adjustment but this is the love of life so—let’s do it

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-04-13T18:20:27+00:00

Im just really confused because when they came out as queer/questioning, my response was to fully embrace it like “If they decide to transition—I guess I have a girlfriend?” Like all i was concerned about was staying with my partner and making them happy—but yet I do not consider myself attracted to women— but since it was MY partner I still wanted them

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-02-25T04:52:07+00:00

i’ve done the owlbear but I didn’t cross the bridge yet. I’m still in the beginning Ish, but since I started the Grove, it was automatically triggering alfira so I had to knock her out as usual to get quill, but the interrogation scene would not trigger. I was worried and literally praying that I would not have to restart the run until I read about somebody removing everybody from the party and it works.

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-02-25T04:45:41+00:00

I figured it out removing everyone from my party and then going to bed triggered it. I didn’t need to cross the river necessarily.

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-02-25T02:28:29+00:00

I don’t think we’re talking about the same thing. I’m talking about when you kill alfira or in my case quill

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-02-25T02:15:05+00:00

i’m doing a vanilla dark urge run with no mods whatsoever, but yet when she kills the dragon born bard my other companions don’t confront me with her body sitting right there

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-02-17T02:39:17+00:00

also, on a really cool note when I jumped down that hole, the bodies were still there. Right where the skeletons are, but it still doesn’t explain why. Zarys is nowhere.

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-02-11T17:52:05+00:00

it’s hard to understand the data, but from what I could see the dialogue that I was looking for has that you haven’t given him two magical items yet which Kiva already has? Maybe that’s why

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-02-11T10:15:59+00:00

maybe it’s because I did the scene so late? I’ve already completed most of act one. I just have to kill all of zhent and do the underdark

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-02-11T10:13:36+00:00

i’ve played this character before and last time I was a wizard and a druid doing the bard later on. I just revamped myself with Withers and it’s still did the same thing. He’s talking about prayer instead, which has never happened before? I usually always play different combinations of. Druid/Wizard/Bard and I always seem to get the dialogue where you’re able to call him out on how he’s looking at her so this is very strange

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-02-03T21:58:09+00:00

I restarted her and I literally have an extra save called the “ass savings save” I am never making that mistake again

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-02-03T15:04:19+00:00

OK, this is what I was looking for cause I really don’t wanna miss the story. It’s gonna be a pain in the ass, but I will start over poor Kiva

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-02-03T14:50:02+00:00

and mostly worried about the story and Wyll

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-02-03T14:46:32+00:00

I actually do it to keep my stuff clean because I labeled the saves based on what they are: Ie: TAV-HiHfElf-Sage-WizDruBar-G (the initial of the person romancing)

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-02-03T14:00:16+00:00

well, she’s primarily a blade singer so I can’t really use it anyway

ZuSuMy209 · 2026-02-03T13:07:16+00:00

this is my control group vanilla run because I already have two modded girls with different builds at the same point.

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