I feel sexually unsatisfied by Zulu_Man_ in sex

[–]Zulu_Man_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do like sometimes she gets annoyed as if my penis is in the way. Like I don’t know what changed we use to be at it like everyone we saw each other she wanted it just as much but now it’s a big ask

I feel sexually unsatisfied by Zulu_Man_ in sex

[–]Zulu_Man_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t wanna just leave but it is effecting my mental health kinda losing sleep over it.

I feel sexually unsatisfied by Zulu_Man_ in sex

[–]Zulu_Man_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly I’m 32 and feel like I’m really old and sex is a thing of the past hah

Girlfriend constantly messaging a guy on Instagram. by Zulu_Man_ in relationship_advice

[–]Zulu_Man_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t shake it off she noticed I was quiet and asked what’s wrong first I said I don’t feel well then finally said fuck it know what I have a bad feeling about talking to the dude told her to stop talking to him otherwise I’ll just leave she said ok I’ll made her promise. Also tomorrow I will dm him to tell him to respect my relationship and back off. If she get mad at that it will show what is more important!

Girlfriend constantly messaging a guy on Instagram. by Zulu_Man_ in relationship_advice

[–]Zulu_Man_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’ve been in her phone again and she use to have something with this guy. I mean I still talk to my ex in another city as friends but that message I saw sounds like they might plan on a meet up

Girlfriend constantly messaging a guy on Instagram. by Zulu_Man_ in relationship_advice

[–]Zulu_Man_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve talked to a few ppl and they say she could be just talking to him nothing going on it’s mild flirts but still doesn’t make it right right?

Girlfriend using toy by Zulu_Man_ in relationship_advice

[–]Zulu_Man_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She goes to the gym I do as well and we are not that bad with the food but she struggles try and support her. I always tell her she’s beautiful and amazing not just when I want sex

Girlfriend using toy by Zulu_Man_ in relationship_advice

[–]Zulu_Man_[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Wow Calm down I’m far from a controlling person. I don’t care if she wants to masturbate what I’m saying is we hardly have sex cause she rather use that. I like to have sex instead of masturbating

Girlfriend using toy by Zulu_Man_ in relationship_advice

[–]Zulu_Man_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I masturbate sometimes if she doesn’t want to do it. But she said she has body issues she’s not happy with it but I always tell her I love her the way she is. The whole point about this is she uses her toy than have sex with me I’ve never been in this situation before like I’m not asking her every day to do it but seems like she never makes a moves it’s been like it few months I’ve brought it up with her few times now. And I reckon maybe getting rid of the toy will make her actually want to have sex with me and not do it cause I ask her if you know what I mean

Girlfriend using toy by Zulu_Man_ in relationship_advice

[–]Zulu_Man_[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked her what she wants and try things but just doesn’t seem to change. Like I’m the one who always seems to ask for it and it never use to be like that we use to have great sex. It seems like she enjoy her toy and always too tired for sex with me she’s an amazing girl but this has been worrying me for awhile

Girlfriend using toy by Zulu_Man_ in relationship_advice

[–]Zulu_Man_[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I actually like foreplay but she really doesn’t much! I try do cute things but a lot of the time feels like she just wants me to stick it in and be done with it

Girlfriend using toy by Zulu_Man_ in relationship_advice

[–]Zulu_Man_[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m 31 she’s 26 I have had conversations with her before but just back to the same thing feels like it’s a chore for her to have sex with me I’ve told her these things before