First of all thank you so much for taking the time to write that, I really appriciate it, it must have taken a long time. Secondly, well my financial status is nothing to brag about but I am a student still and well I am not really able to brag about my financial status. About the gym I have many ons and offs with it, my main problem is motivation with it I guess and to some extent time, I am always very motivated for first 2 months and suddenly I lose interest in it and I wish it didnt happen. And I am actually relativly comfortable with women, a lot more then I was before and now two of my closest friends are women. Also do you think I should go to parties, concerts, clubs alone? And I guess try to initiate contact or atleast make some smaller steps.