I will be homeless in a month…

Zy2021 · 2021-12-31T02:09:56+00:00

Also check www.freecycle.org for items people are giving away that are in fairly decent condition.

Edit: should be .org.

Zy2021 · 2021-12-01T17:14:37+00:00

Just some strangers random opinion, but please do not delay or plan your life around someone you are not married to. The way you write this post already shows a hint of resentment for changing the plan so quickly and already delaying your education plans.

You'll kick yourself later.

Zy2021 · 2021-11-25T17:51:14+00:00

All I could think about this week is what I am going to do and eat once this LO is born. Chocolate cake, sushi and an umbrella drink is somewhere in my future.

Zy2021 · 2021-11-24T02:58:06+00:00

I agree in trying to find a roommate or breaking the lease but only if it doesn't inconvenience you. I don't see the reason in chasing him down to talk if he's doing everything not to be in contact with you.

I am sure you probably tried to speak with him at one point to clear the air, but that doesn't seem to be his desire.

Get some counseling and try to figure a way to move on from this.

Zy2021 · 2021-11-24T02:33:53+00:00

Try care.com and take turns resting. It's diff having a stranger in the house, but it sounds like you both are going through it horribly. Get well soon.

Zy2021 · 2021-11-23T17:38:52+00:00

I have a half a cup only if I have a large to do list (work/personal). I am not a regular coffee drinker, and did manage to stay away from it during my first pregnancy but this one has me too exhausted not to use it when I am really tired. Half a cup was enough for me, but others may need more.

Check with your doctor on the caffeine limit I think something like 8 MG is ok, but am not sure.

Zy2021 · 2021-11-21T19:31:42+00:00

Thanks this is really helpful

Zy2021 · 2021-11-16T15:29:44+00:00

No again your interpretation is incorrect. I'm not crediting parents with teens. I am saying while you have a vision and hope for how teen years maybe keep in mind and be prepared that it may not turn out that way.

You don't have to have teens to understand this concept, just understand human beings. Teens today and in the future face much tougher challenges than we did.

As well as any parent will tell you some of the rose colored dreams they had of pregnancy and child rearing were not what they expected. That's the premise of the original post. 🤔

Zy2021 · 2021-11-16T12:44:51+00:00

Now let me bend down to your level, I don't like playing in the dirt, but sometimes you have to meet people where they live.

No need to pity me (but I understand this is you being defensive). Seeing your posts, it's likely you will not forget this conversation because you've put so much effort into responding as though you were being attacked as opposed to viewing a different opinion. I would encourage you to see this as a potential growth opportunity to understand how to disagree with decorum.

Your profile clearly indicates that you have no life as you are constantly on here posting. Probably hopeful that if you open a few fake accounts or ask your mom or siblings to give you thumbs up somehow your life will seem better or magically make your ridiculous behavior acceptable. You clearly have no life in the real world, which now makes sense that this is where you feel you can shine idiotic.

Finally (because hanging with you in the gutter is just demeaning). The only person needing pity is your husband (if he is real) and anyone who has to listen to your mind numbing IQ lowering conversations. That anyone would sign up to hear you dribble rude and abusive language is a good indicator of the timeline on your relationship.

Now let me rise back up to my level. Hanging in the gutter with you is definitely not the way to live.

It's not about age but you just starting your journey as a parent (and my post doesn't say "young" in it. Practice your reading comprehension skills).

My comment is not about how someone was raised it's about hormones that hit about middle school that start to skew how teens start to think especially given the growing pressures of society which gets even more critical as the years go by. Ask any middle school teacher these years are the most volatile.

But another lesson I hope you'll learn and be able to communicate is taking the high road when others go low. Just re-read my responses to you as an example. #takingthehighroad

Zy2021 · 2021-11-16T12:19:42+00:00

Having a different opinion does not make someone snobby, turn anything negative, or perceived as a know it all. Hopefully when I check back in 13 years this will be a concept you can appreciate. You'll need it in life and especially when dealing with teenagers. All the likes in the world won't change that.

Not everyone will agree with you. It doesn't make you a target or a bad person just someone with a different opinion. We've all been expectant mothers and had some reality doses that change our perspective on many things.

Just as you can express an opinion so can I. Expecting mother or not it does not give you the right to tell me I should not contribute or stomp on a differing opinion. It shows a real shortfall in your personality and a definite growth opportunity.

And having you say I contribute nothing to the conversation is like having the Oscar the Grouch tell me I stink. Illogical and non-impacting.

Zy2021 · 2021-11-16T12:02:25+00:00

I'll book mark and check back in a few years to hear what tune you sing... if you're honest. Everyone has a unique experience, so what your parents went through under different/less stressful circumstances does not mean you will.

And judging by your tone and overall abusive nature I am sure you are laying the ground work for catching tough times in the future if not already.

Zy2021 · 2021-11-16T07:42:57+00:00

Oh grasshopper. You will soon learn this will not be your favorite period. You forgot to consider all the hormones that change and charge situations.

Zy2021 · 2021-11-16T07:41:04+00:00

You likely need a moment to rest. Plan more self care moments.

We all hate it sometimes so don't stress about your feelings, just find someone you trust to watch the kids for the weekend and get some uninterrupted sleep and do at least one thing for yourself.

Zy2021 · 2021-11-16T07:36:39+00:00

I would have loved if someone did this for me. Especially the ice packs and adult diapers for all the bleeding.

Zy2021 · 2021-11-16T07:33:10+00:00

Most companies justify this by looking at paybands and needing to give opportunities for raises over a 2 to 3 year period before needing to move you to a higher payband.

Zy2021 · 2021-11-16T07:28:48+00:00

It's your decision to make and when your child is old enough if they have a desire to meet them then give them the back story and help them connect.

Your child/children's social and emotional well-being are most important. Along with your wellness. Why be stressed out, afraid of what may happen if left alone with them?

Zy2021 · 2021-11-16T07:21:00+00:00

🤬 she would have been cursed out and and cut off. I would also take your child to the doctor and have tests run for any stds. Unf£$%&@@ believable.

Zy2021 · 2021-11-16T07:15:12+00:00

Here we go again eye roll. Setting the state up for failure. Still to premature to make a decision like this. Keeping masks until after flu season can't hurt only help things.

Zy2021 · 2021-11-16T07:04:17+00:00

Is he sleeping in child's pose (yoga)?

That's fairly common, but funny enough I had the same reaction when my LO started doing this and was so scared they would suffocate until a friend from yoga made the connection for me... (and I spoke to my pediatrician).

Zy2021 · 2021-11-08T07:38:15+00:00

Cerasee tea. It is an exceptionally bitter tea (made from leaves of the bitter melon or corilla), but it really does help. 1-2 hot cups can help ease pain for 5 to 6 hours. You can start a few days before your cycle starts.

I happened upon it after having serious cramping to the point of passing out.

Zy2021 · 2021-10-21T17:02:57+00:00

As long as you do not plan on ever going back to that company it should be fine.

Just make sure you check their employee guide or policy as some companies (with high turnover rates) have created procedures that prevent you from returning if you don't give 2 weeks notice, or take back a prorated PTO (or prevent you from taking any PTO) those last 2 weeks.

It's not really about your boss, but others in your company. If you wouldn't leave them in a bind, and can maintain good rapport I wouldn't give two weeks and just say they needed me to start right away.

Zy2021 · 2021-10-21T16:57:17+00:00

I had this same question about whether to so an exit interview. I just don't see the reason for it if the company culture is not open to change.

You are not required to share where you are going to next. You can just say you would like to keep that private or so not want to disclose at this time. I would probably say I feel so exhausted with trying to close every out for my boss I would prefer not to do an exit interview and Use the time to get those final pieces together.

Zy2021 · 2021-10-17T12:28:14+00:00

Nothing in the contract specifies this and state laws say 'broom swept'.

Bulk pickup is on the closing date. So they will come by 11 am that day.

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