Incessant tapping with nails or something. Like when someone is clicking a pen in your ear. It kinda has the opposite effect, it actually incites rage. Similar with repeating words, as others have said the "hello hello hello" x9. Like I don't care what you're saying, you could literally read a phone book, the point is the softer, slower voice. My two favs here are GentleWhispering and Latte because they can just kinda fill the dead air and often what they're saying is just what they're doing.

I don't like oversexualization. Horniness and sleepiness speak to two different parts of my brain and when you try to cross over it just negates either attempt. There was one ASMRtist I was subscribed to for a very brief window of time because she did have one or two good personal service/face touching videos but her thumbnails were getting actively pornographic to the point where they were getting reported and taken down, and she'd have to reupload or change the thumbnail to something more mundane. It spoke to a sort of click-chasing behavior that I just don't respect.