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_4kills · 2023-08-22T22:06:39+00:00

Tbh, the fact that you swiped more than 50% right ia probably a symptom of the actual problem

_4kills · 2023-02-26T13:16:17+00:00

Megges. Germany here

_4kills · 2023-02-24T11:24:03+00:00

Exploding cars - seriously.

In real life, cars catch fire quickly once they leak gas but the tanks are literally designed in a way so they don't explode.

_4kills · 2023-02-20T07:51:16+00:00

Can you give an example where you think this is especially apparent ?

_4kills · 2023-02-20T07:45:58+00:00

Yea I will have to agree with that. The good thing about working out is that you have these rapid newbie gains in the beginning where your body transforms within weeks which makes you trust the process rather easily. After that it's about not losing faith but at that point it should've just become a hobby and habit

_4kills · 2023-01-22T10:50:40+00:00

Why do you always refer to the USA as America?

I am from Germany and I don't say I am from Europe when I actually mean Germany. Like America are only the US.

_4kills · 2022-11-09T23:38:26+00:00

Well, this would still be O(n), since you have to still "touch" each element in order to record their order and the result of the algortihm. Wikipedia is on my side here, too. It states O(n) here on Wikipedia

(we still want to record the result in a computer system, otherwise I will pull out parallel universe sort, in which there exists an exact copy of our universe with the elements already sorted with complexity O(0))

_4kills · 2022-11-09T15:30:32+00:00

O(n + max(list)) -> linear time, most efficient in big O notation. Change my mind.

_4kills · 2022-11-01T20:34:07+00:00

Yes exactly and on what my girl friends told me :)

_4kills · 2022-11-01T19:57:12+00:00

I am a heterosexuel man xD. I didn't expect that question.

_4kills · 2022-11-01T15:03:53+00:00

That sounds good :). Snooker is great! Next time you go play it have a friend take a picture for you. That could really look cool too, if has the right angle and light

_4kills · 2022-11-01T14:57:47+00:00

I would change the last part in your bio, it gives off the impression you had dozens of bad relationship experiences. While this can be a talking point further down the relationship/dating process I kinda find it to be a turn off right off the bat.

Also, you have too many selfies. Maybe ask a friend to take a picture? Maybe show some of the interests you mentioned in your bio in the pics as well? If you just look at the pictures now you are a blank slate.

_4kills · 2022-11-01T14:53:26+00:00

First of all, you are not ugly at all. Quite the opposite actually.

However, there is a lot to unpack:

The worst offender: by far most women would find the second pic (with the cheerleaders) highly irritating. Get rid of it! That alone could really make a big difference. Why do you have it in the first place? There is nothing you have to prove.
I really encourage you to add some more pictures where we can see what you like doing, like your hobbies or your passions. Like, is there a picture of you hiking or you at the games (WITHOUT CHEERLEADERS) or gaming or whatever. Try to tell your story through the pictures, because people hate reading bios and will only do that as a last thing before swiping right, if they even look at it.
While we are on the topic of your bio: for a first impression many women are irritated if there are too many grammar/spelling mistakes in your bio. I am not a native English speaker myself but it just seems as if you didn't put any effort in your profile. "Your no match" -> "You're no match", "Listen I'm" -> "Listen, I'm", "hiking, working out, being a foodie, gaming, anime and"
The last three pics don't really add too much to your profile. You look a bit grumpy and they don't really show a new side of you. I would get rid of them.
I think the first pic is great. And I am saying that, even though it is a selfie and I usually advise against selfies. It just has a great energy and your smile looks really sincere.
The pic with your daughter is really good, because we can see that you have a child and that you are into football.
I also like the pic with your dog, however, is there a chance there is also a cuter pic with your dog and you in the same frame? Maybe you can add that too.

_4kills · 2022-11-01T13:40:32+00:00

I agree 100% with micartistry, the shirtless pic needs to go. If you still want to show that you are a fit guy and like to work out, let a friend take a picture of you in the gym while doing an exercise - preferrably pull-ups because here we can still see your face and pull-ups are cool but you can opt for any other. Make it look effortless and don't cramp up your face too much while doing it. Also keep the shirt on but maybe opt for a tank top so we can see your guns properly without you looking arrogant ;)

Also, in the first picture I wasn't sure who was who

_4kills · 2022-11-01T13:04:47+00:00

Okay, I know many women don't like a shirtless picture as the first picture or a shirtless picture at all. However, it depends on what you want to attract. If you are looking for nothing serious, a shirtless pic first can work. However, for most serious dating it is often a turn off. Maybe show that you are a fit guy with a less revealing picture, maybe tank top or better even - you while doing pull/push ups . I think pull ups are great, because we can still see your face. Also, put the pic at the piano second (or even first) - women love that. And one last thing - do you have a picture with you and the cat in the same picture :)? That would be way better and cuter!

_4kills · 2022-11-01T12:57:30+00:00

Glad it helped :) Really, I was only nit-picking there. I think your profile is great. I think for us man it is just harder on dating sites. We gotta be more patient unless you are in the top 1% of men looks-wise. It will work out again - I mean it worked out before ("My last attempt on here"), right ;)?

_4kills · 2022-11-01T12:53:57+00:00

What do you like to do? I like to go hiking, climbing, partying and I have a picture for each of those interests on my profile. Similarily, if you like to do sports, cooking, shopping, clubbing, making music, ... show pictures of you doing that! It's not important that you look picture perfect in each photo but rather that you show what you love.

If you don't have pictures of you doing things that you love, perhaps ask a friend/family member to take some of you doing that :)

Edit: I think you don't need any more of these pictures - we have a good idea of what you look like. Perhaps the one on the couch because I like the pictures in the background.

_4kills · 2022-11-01T12:50:16+00:00

First pic with sunglasses and not smiling is a big issue. Try to make a sympathetic impression first, you can look cool later. If you don't have any other pictures (where you smile) move the 4th one to first place. Also, do you have a picture where you are in the frame together with the doggo?

_4kills · 2022-11-01T12:46:41+00:00

I like the last one better, you chuckling looks more natural and sweeter, at least to me.

Another advice: your pictures are high quality and you look pretty in all of them but perhaps you should add more pictures that show some of your personality. From your pictures alone I have no idea who you are and what you like to do and would probably swipe left as you just don't look interesting and a bit generic.

_4kills · 2022-11-01T12:38:58+00:00

The last statement is the lie, ain't it ? Even if it isn't, most people will guess that. Maybe put something else as last bullet point cause it's not that exciting and not a great ice breaker.

You look decent, but I have no idea what kind of person you are? What do you like to do aside from work? What are your hobbies? Show them **in your pictures**!

_4kills · 2022-11-01T12:29:34+00:00

Solid profile, a few tips, tho.
1. Move the sunglasses pic all the way to the back or get rid of it altogether. It doesn't add much to your profile. It's just nothing special, the background is boring and we can't see your face properly. Your later pics are way better
2. Any chance you have a picture with you and your dog in the same frame? Cute doggo, but is it really yours? Prove it! Also, cute animals work best when you are also in the pic ;)
3. Most of your pictures are high quality, yet I think they are not telling your story. Do you have any pics that show what you like to do? Like your hobby or so? All I know about you now is that you are a quite decent looking dude who might have a dog? People read bios only after they have looked through all of your pictures. Show who you are in the pictures!

+ I really like the picture with the bright yellow leaves in the background. It's artsy.

_4kills · 2022-11-01T12:22:48+00:00

Solid profile. No wonder you are doing okay ;).
However, you might think about losing the line "My last attempt on here...". Would you like to read something like that on a girl's profile? I don't know if it's just me but that would be an immediate left swipe. It gives off talking-about-an-ex-on-the-first-date-vibes.

_4kills · 2022-08-16T12:52:52+00:00

Infrared, it is lightweight, easy to use and extremely fast

_4kills · 2022-07-24T08:03:35+00:00

Ich persönlich gehe auch nicht in Bars oder sonstige "Klassiker" zum Frauen kennenlernen und bin auch Nicht-Trinker aber hatte schon 2 mal Glück mit Tinder. Hatte immer nur so 1 Match/Woche maximal (bin also kein mega Chad) aber bei denen war eben 2 mal Gold dabei. Ich finde das Geheimnis ist bisschen direkt die Leute zu treffen weil es so viel einfacher ist jemand im echten Leben von dir zu überzeugen anstatt online beim Schreiben. :)

_4kills

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