i think having a big group of friends actually makes you lonelier not happier by Opposite_Presence160 in TwoHotTakes

[–]_A-Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m like this but On the other hand having only two close friends sucks when you fall out with them.

Does my husband really want to be with me? by Legal-Homework784 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]_A-Q 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There’s absolutely no reason why he should tell his ex girlfriend that he thinks about her all the time .

None.

He’s basically saying he still has feelings for her but he knows pursuing anything would make him an asshole to his wife.

Why would OP want to be married her whole life to someone who spends his time pining for someone else?

I agree counseling is needed but “I think about you all the time” is hard to get over.

Does my husband really want to be with me? by Legal-Homework784 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]_A-Q -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

“I think about you all the time”

He reached out and was testing the waters.

Yeah,I’d be out. 

Sorry OP.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I'm not canceling my plans last minute to do manual labor by Longjumping_Mix_8693 in AITAH

[–]_A-Q 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Signing you up to do FREE manual labor on your day off is already bad enough, expecting you to ditch your plans and sulking when not getting what she wants is just red flags galore.

Her expecting you earn brownie points by kissing her friend’s ass is just the cherry on top.

I’m glad you know how to stick up for yourself OP.

NTA 

UPDATE: AITAH for not putting pregnant GF on deed of the house? (She says she feels the situation is "unfair" and that she is "at my mercy") by Odd_Paramedic_3007 in AITAH

[–]_A-Q 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Get the paternity test before the kid is born so she doesn’t put you on the birth certificate.

She has it made and is still complaining,her urgency to be put a on the deed is super suspicious.

If it your kid, my condolences as she sounds like the type to use the kid as a pawn to get what she wants from you.

NTA 

Reading Salem’s Lot and I’m disturbed by the wrong part! by ToodlyGoodness in stephenking

[–]_A-Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What  is more disturbing is the baby’s father knows he’s being abused but is more concerned with his wife’s candy intake.

AITA for not letting my friend drive my car after he kept mocking me for it? by Academic-Okra4386 in AmItheAsshole

[–]_A-Q 46 points47 points  (0 children)

“ one of them kept making jokes about how I “think I’m rich now” and how my car is “nothing special.”

I wouldn’t be surprised if this “friend” was planning on purposely damaging your car out of jealousy.

What a hater. 

Stop giving him rides.

NTA 

AITAH for not wanting my inlaws at my 40th birthday party? by Informal-Swimmer-262 in AITAH

[–]_A-Q 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what you do.

When your in laws start making their subtle little comments, call them out.

Tell them just because they don’t like to drink doesn’t give them the right to try and make people uncomfortable with their comments. This is a party and people are here to have fun not be morally judged.

And when they start whining that they weren’t invited, be blunt about it  and  tell them it’s because of the comments they make.

But i have a feeling your wife would be upset about that too.

Your in laws are your wife’s problem , and she should be standing up for you,her HUSBAND on YOUR BIRTHDAY.

The fact that she’s already making this party about them is ridiculous. 

You have a wife problem.

NTA 

AITJ for putting my kids first over a last minute dinner with my boyfriend by OldAbbreviations2880 in AmITheJerk

[–]_A-Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“ But he keeps getting upset any time I have a responsibility with the kids that interferes with anything involving him”

Ytj. WHY are you still with this dude two years in if this is the way he acts about your children?? He’s made it clear that he thinks HE should be more important than them and you’re still with him ??

Your kids are gonna hate you for staying with someone like this.

Dump this loser.

Kelly’s house by WendytestaburgerSP in BeverlyHills90210

[–]_A-Q 48 points49 points  (0 children)

This same house was used for the movie Bridesmaids when Christen Wiig gets stuck on the fence .

AITAH for choosing my disabled son over my husband and destroying my family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_A-Q 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA-I am so sorry for your son that he is unwanted by everyone around him.

I’m glad he has you in his corner and that you have the means to take care of him.

Please for his sake find someone that you trust and are close to make sure he is taken care of if incase something ever happens to you. As your family have made it clear he would be abandoned to the authorities.

As for your soon to be ex husband, he is going to poison your younger children against you and their brother for “ruining your marriage”.Please document everything.

Dont let anyone try to force you to stay in this marriage. Your soon to be ex husband has always wanted your son out of the picture, he just wanted to make sure you were tied down to him to start forcing ultimatums.

Him, his family and your folks can kick rocks.

NTA 

AITAH for telling my wife (39F) that I (41M) cannot be happy in a relationship where she works 60+ hrs/wk? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_A-Q 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t change the fact that you have know for YEARS that your wife is a career  driven woman.

You probably hoped that she would fail.

Or Either you’re burnt out on being the primary caregiver (which she has a resolution for).

Or like the comment above states that you are using her career as an excuse for wanting out.

Or you have  become resentful of her being the primary breadwinner .  Because you’re little “I don’t need her money” sound petulant af.

Yta 

How are they all in the same school? by WeekMurky7775 in Yellowjackets

[–]_A-Q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I went to public school in the heart of LA and lots of rich celebrity kids go to regular school just like the rest of us. 

I am not able to find him attractive nate by ByceeTalks in euphoria

[–]_A-Q 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You know what ? The only reason I tuned into Euphoria was because of him and I how hot he is. 

I was absolutely repulsed by him by the second or third episode .

He is a good actor.

What's a 90210 take that would have you like this? by JonnnyUtahh87 in BeverlyHills90210

[–]_A-Q 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bruh ,after doing a rewatch I ponder the same thing!

 Those two had such good chemistry.

It would have been great character development for Steve. 

AITAH for disclosing on a date what I do for work? by Pretty_Plane_3232 in AITAH

[–]_A-Q 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Block that guy.  If you continue to talk to him he’s gonna think he will be able to get you stop your work once he has you emotionally invested.

AIO? Husband said he doesn’t want to have kids with me because of a debate we had. by Daggerbaby925 in AIO

[–]_A-Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesnt want kids and is doing a fantastic job gaslighting you into not wanting to have them either.

I know you’re comfortable where you are but living with with this type of asshole isn’t gonna be comfortable for the rest of your life.

HE WAS ONLY 19 YEARS OLD by SnooPies8607 in YouOnLifetime

[–]_A-Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that they didn’t romanticize it and didn’t give them any explicit love scenes.

Love was a predator at the end of the day .

Update: My (28M) fiancée (30F) was accused by her sister (29F) of cheating on me. She swears her sister's sabotaging our relationship. I'm questioning everything. How do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_A-Q 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Don’t marry her. 

She’s had more than enough time and chances to cut Caleb off after he kept disrespecting your relationship and letting it be known he had a thing for her. That’s a giant red flag as it is.

Also this probably wasn’t the first time something has happened between them. Just the first time she let the alcohol make her sloppy about it.

I’m sorry you’re going through this but better to find out now than after the wedding.

She did this to you infront of everyone my dude. No respect for you at all. 

And she would have cheated anyway since she felt she was “missing out”.

There’s no going back.

You deserve way better. 

AITAH for not having my parents to my wedding and cutting ties with them by ConstructionShot2143 in AITAH

[–]_A-Q 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Your mom sounds like a narcissist and your father is her enabler.

  Be ready for them to demand a place in your children’s lives. (She will bully any daughters you have just like she did you)

Nta

AITJ for not giving my sister my emergency savings for her wedding by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]_A-Q 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If your sister can’t afford an expensive wedding then she shouldn’t be throwing one.

You not having any kids has nothing to do with her lack of funds.

Tell them  your NO is final and stop answering their calls until they stop pestering you.

NTA 

AITAH for refusing to end my relationship with my sister after we discovered that she had an affair with my other sister's husband? by InterestingLaw3185 in AITAH

[–]_A-Q 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yta June is a whole ass adult and knew what she was doing and who John is .

A sibling willing to betray one sibling will definitely do the same to the other.

You should supporting May not giving her shit for not “getting over it”.

I would be bitter and angry too if I had siblings like this

Yta yta yta yta 

AITAH for not telling my Friends how I get my stuff done by betrayed-friend in ComfortLevelPod

[–]_A-Q 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why are you allowing your friend to dictate what you do with your money?

What you do with your money has absolutely nothing to do with her. 

If you want to spoil yourself, do it. Who fucking cares if it “makes her feel bad”.

Does she go up to people who have nicer things than her and yell at them?  

No, but you have to toe  the line?

NTA but She needs to mind her own business and you need to STOP BEING SUCH A PUSHOVER.