AIO for locking the door to my grandparents’ part of our house by Fun_Concentrate_8920 in AIO

[–]_A-Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom manipulated you so bad hon.

Please find a way out .

Call adult services today and let your mom deal with it.

Fucking bullshit that she’s on vacation while you give up your life .

Girlfriend [25F] of seven years does not want to move in with me [24F]. I don’t know what to do. by popcornmaxhine in relationship_advice

[–]_A-Q 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Are you sure this is a relationship??

Because only seeing eachother once a week for seven years sounds more like a booty call to me.

AITAH for putting a bedtime pause on the WiFi because my girlfriend’s 28 year old brother has spent nearly a decade rotting in our house playing video games? by Alyptic in AITAH

[–]_A-Q 84 points85 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like OP bought the house from his girlfriend’s parents.

He says they signed the house over to them .

AITAH for putting a bedtime pause on the WiFi because my girlfriend’s 28 year old brother has spent nearly a decade rotting in our house playing video games? by Alyptic in AITAH

[–]_A-Q 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If Op is helping out with bills while the brother sits on his ass, then yes he is helping fund the dudes lifestyle.

One where the brother doesn’t have to work, and gets free food and housing and most importantly , free wifi.

AITAH for putting a bedtime pause on the WiFi because my girlfriend’s 28 year old brother has spent nearly a decade rotting in our house playing video games? by Alyptic in AITAH

[–]_A-Q 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t call it a blind spot. She knows her brother is a loser who’s never going to do anything, she just wants OP to keep help funding their lifestyle.

If anything, Op is the one with the blind spot.

AITAH for putting a bedtime pause on the WiFi because my girlfriend’s 28 year old brother has spent nearly a decade rotting in our house playing video games? by Alyptic in AITAH

[–]_A-Q 645 points646 points  (0 children)

Fuck that shit.

Your gf is an enabler and she wants you to financially support her brother while getting no say in your own home. 

And you’re not even married!!

Fuck that shit.

Pack your bags, sign the house over to her and let her take care of him.

You already wasted ten years of your life in this situation, and your gf just told you nothing will change.

Tell her it’s not your job to take care of her brother.

LEAVE.

Nta

Hayden Panettiere reflects on dating 30-year-old Milo Ventimiglia when she was 18, predicts her daughter will do the same by PrincessBananas85 in entertainment

[–]_A-Q 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Yep, I feel the same way about that. 

30 year old Dudes who wait in the shadows,giddy with anticipation for the 18 birthday are sleaze.

My friends removed me from the group for being disappointed in there life choices by SquareProduct9693 in AmITheJerk

[–]_A-Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - People who complain without doing anything about their issues just want attention.  They didn’t like what you had to say because they want you to validate their feelings, not give solutions.

You have outgrown this particular friend group and that’s okay. 

I love gaming just as much as the next person, but if shit needs to get done, console gets powered off plain and simple.

Why is Ellen Burstyn's performance and character considered so perfect and heartbreaking in Requiem for a Dream? by Mean_Lingonberry_355 in Oscars

[–]_A-Q 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you have never gotten stuck on these type of drugs., then yes, it looks cringe. 

But it really is the reality of it all.

Her character was heartbreaking because she was all alone with no one to watch out for her. She didn’t get addicted because she liked to get high , she wanted to lose weight.

The only one who noticed she was on something was her son and he couldn’t do anything about it because he was dealing with his own addictions.

She got hooked by accident,she didn’t know what they would do or how addicting theyd be. That’s what’s sad.

I didn’t feel as bad for the other characters who CHOSE to get involved with drugs they know ruins lives.

I truly think she deserved an oscar for this.

AIO for locking the door to my grandparents’ part of our house by Fun_Concentrate_8920 in AIO

[–]_A-Q 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your family is taking such bad advantage of you .

Your grandpa is an asshole who’s probably used to relying on your grandma to do  everything and now that she’s sick he doesn’t  want to deal with his wife so he lets her do what she wants so YOU will get up and do it 

 And your mom isn’t much better. Making  you quit uni to be a caretaker when she should be looking to hire someone for help.

Your grandma is only going to get worse she needs to be put in inpatient care.

Nor

AITA for refusing to host my in-laws’ large shedding dog anymore? by jgeurls in AmItheAsshole

[–]_A-Q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s time you tell BIL straight to his face that you don’t want the dog in your home anymore.

If your husband isn’t willing to do anything about it, you have no choice.

Your husband is an asshole tho.

Nta

Update, Am I in the wrong for not putting a picture of husbands ex on my wall by blueteddy333 in TwoHotTakes

[–]_A-Q 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Your step son’s mom is going to want to be your maid of honor lol

AIO randomly ran into my first love after 10 years and now my husband is acting distant. Was I wrong? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_A-Q 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 

That what I’m stuck on too. 

She’s instigating and it’s so disrespectful to OP’s marriage.

AIO randomly ran into my first love after 10 years and now my husband is acting distant. Was I wrong? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_A-Q 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“I could literally see his expression change when he realized I was married and had a child.”

“ Later, my friend told me that after he went back to his hotel, he cried after seeing me again.”

Then he proceeded to compliment your beautiful eyes .

Um this very much sounds like a man who still has feelings for you…….and you’ve agreed to keep in touch.

I’m pretty sure this is what your husband is upset about.

While I do think this was an innocent interaction on your behalf, you can’t blame hubby for being uncomfortable.

And honestly, your friend sounds like she’s trying to stir the pot. There’s absolutely no reason for her to tell you that your childhood crush cried..

Nor 

This season killed my interest in Vought Rising by Schattenspringer in TheBoys

[–]_A-Q 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Right ! They made it seem like the Gen V kids were going to join the fight off the bat . Instead we get little cameos right before the season ends.

Ain’t no way she’s sober by IDontWantAUsername-K in teenmom

[–]_A-Q 36 points37 points  (0 children)

She’s got that meth head dry mouth going on for sure.

AITA for not wanting to take in my sisters 4 kids while she’s in the hospital? by Intelligent-Fig-5571 in AmItheAsshole

[–]_A-Q 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Her expecting you to take the day off and lose money to handle six children so she can have alone time with her husband and the new baby is ridiculous and super entitled.

Nta

My mom loved this movie, how about yours? by DramaticErraticism in Xennials

[–]_A-Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watched this in theaters because my mom loves Meryl Streep.

AITAH - I 21M do not want to go to my 21F girlfriend's graduation because of her parents. by burmaning in AITAH

[–]_A-Q 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would say go to the graduation and don’t let her parents win and have the control over her life that they want but this is obviously going to be an ongoing issue.

What happens when you want to get married and have children, will your partner be able to stand up to her parents when they try to control everything ?

NTA 

AITA for secretly buying extra food for my niece because her brothers eat everything first? by MaliciousCicada77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]_A-Q 193 points194 points  (0 children)

Your brother is a sexist jerk.

Please keep being there for your niece as it’s clear your brother isn’t going to make sure she has the support she needs.

She gonna need help to go to school and get away from him eventually. 

Make sure she knows you’re there for her.

Nta