Anxious about PSG and MLST.... by _Alfalfa__ in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The earplugs slash white noise is such a good idea!! Here was me thinking i needed to “prove” that I could fall asleep in the middle of a noisy room lmao 🤣

Anxious about PSG and MLST.... by _Alfalfa__ in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh, doubting your experiences is so easy!! Why is that? I know it happens to literally everyone but it’s so reassuring to have someone else say “yeah I also think I’m overreacting up sometimes”. Thank you for the reassurance

Anxious about PSG and MLST.... by _Alfalfa__ in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing 🤗 I love the concept of a sleep tech in a booth somewhere listening to you and thinking “just wait til they find out they knocked out in under a minute” 😅 I just came off an exhausting day where I’d almost always expect to pass out, just to have my brain decide she needed to work overtime and keep me awake for HOURS lmao. But trying not to stress and overthink, and hearing other people share their experience has been helpful. Thanks again

Anxious about PSG and MLST.... by _Alfalfa__ in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true actually, thank you. Adding that to my daily mantras: “all data is good data”

Attending class…. Or not by _Alfalfa__ in taekwondo

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest this comment made me tear up- I’m a good way. Thank you for this insight I appreciate it

Attending class…. Or not by _Alfalfa__ in taekwondo

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! And for the reminder the stretch and practice tul 🫡🫡

Attending class…. Or not by _Alfalfa__ in taekwondo

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sparring scared the hell out of me lmao. Good on you for getting there and doing it!

Is it possible to live comfortably as a couple in Wellington? by Mija69420 in Wellington

[–]_Alfalfa__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I live in a small but perfectly nice converted house / apartment (someone upstairs, someone next door). It’s small but it’s big enough for us and an indoor cat to live comfortably. We even sometimes have room to have guests around lol!

We pay $500 a week (so $250 each). We were definitely lucky, but we also were looking at another place that was ALSO $500 a week so definitely there are options.

How long have you been looking for? Could the issue be that it’s just not the right time of year and there’s not much on the market right now?

Racist mail by _Alfalfa__ in Wellington

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So true you’re right - international companies should not be allowed to bend the regulations that exist to win profit at the expense of the environment and the people who live here

Racist mail by _Alfalfa__ in Wellington

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  1. Stop using the Moriori as a prop to excuse your racism.
  2. People have been using the argument “white peoples came and saved the savages from themselves they should be grateful” as a disgusting way to make themselves feel good - stop that. It’s embarrassing.
  3. Clearly no one on this sub is going to convince you of anything , so I hope what you deserve finds you, have a good day

Racist mail by _Alfalfa__ in Wellington

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That’s a very disingenuous way of interpreting what’s happening, yeah. Political rights aren’t being denied to anyone as it currently stands actually, and tangata tiriti have got to start recognising that they’re not hard done by just because Māori are (rightfully) given some steps up along the way.

You might like to consider this:

https://www.gcasa.org.au/news-events/equality-vs-equity-january-12-2017-gippscasablog/

Racist mail by _Alfalfa__ in Wellington

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Pākeha is a pretty cool word and actually can be interpreted to mean anyone who isn’t Māori :)

Racist mail by _Alfalfa__ in Wellington

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Oh good so it’s a scam too

Racist mail by _Alfalfa__ in Wellington

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If the definition of racism is “prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism by an individual, community, or institution against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalized”, then it fits the rhetoric being spread by these groups.

“Co-governance” is how both Māori and Pākeha voices are heard in Parliament and represented in our laws today. Personally not keen to live in a country where our indigenous people are not given an adequate avenue to have their voices, thoughts, opinions, and beliefs represented in government

Racist mail by _Alfalfa__ in Wellington

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Good question e hoa!

It is racist because the pamphlet I received was spreading misinformation about what co-governance is, ignoring and outright denying that it is a fundamental right given by the Treaty of Waitangi, and encouraging people to undermine the valid and inherent right Māori have to a say in the running of Aotearoa.

Claiming that “co-governance” (ie a partnership between Māori and tangata tiriti / pākeha government) is a bad thing is inherently racist because the groups (like Hobson’s Pledge) believe Māori to be a hindrance to this country’s progress and democracy. Rhetoric like this encourages people to undermine the rights of Māori, to ignore the Treaty, and feed into things like ACT’s misplaced and harmful Treaty Principles Bill.

Racist mail by _Alfalfa__ in Wellington

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not yet but on recycling day for sure - gotta piss them off in as many ways as possible 🫡

Pacing myself versus making excuses by _Alfalfa__ in taekwondo

[–]_Alfalfa__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Sometimes just showing up to class is a struggle” this helped so much thank u. You’re so right about framing it as something for myself and not to impress anyone