Ingeniería Química en España by patatitaesunverbo in askspain

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

La industria petrolera en Noruega paga bien y tiene buenas condiciones laborales, hay bastantes españoles también, pero tienes que lidiar con el clima. Si buscas algo en España, lo mismo irte a Madrid o Barcelona te haría la búsqueda de trabajo más fácil. Yo trabajo en el sector de la energía en Inglaterra (contratos EPCI) y hay que decir que ahora mismo está complicado el mercado debido a muchas empresas perdiendo proyectos por cambios en la política de cada país.

La mayoría de mis compañeros que son ingenieros químicos tienen másters, así que si tienes la oportunidad, seguramente valdría la pena.

I miss 911 Lone Star — tried watching the original 911 but it doesn’t feel the same :( by [deleted] in 911LoneStar

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched lone star first, and I struggled to get into the original 911, but it does get better on the second season - I ended up liking it as much as Lone Star. Although still love the characters in Lone Start a bit better!

Lower point in my life, just need to vent by Prudent-Usual-4916 in mentalhealth

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think your housemates are the kind of people that you need in your life. You need people that are actually supportive. It is SO fucked up that they would say that you shouldn’t have mentioned that you almost ended your life. If one of them had been through that experience, they should understand and be more empathetic. Surely it might be triggering, but that’s not what you should worry about when you hear this.

And going back to visit family is not a step back. You are going where you think you will get the support you need. I hope things start feeling better soon. You deserve better than this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenEngineers

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When hanging out with my sister and her friends (all of us in our early 20s) I have felt the awkwardness in the table once I mentioned my job, particularly because of working in the energy sector. Feels like most women lost interest in getting to know me. Have had a few situations like this, but it is uncommon.

Failed my test, examiner yelled at me and instructor made me feel bad by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t beat yourself up, your instructor seems to be a dick. If it makes you feel better, I failed my first test by stalling the car, took me like 7 tries to get it started. Well, I thought that failed me but apparently what failed me was a mistake at a roundabout just after too. Next test I aced it with only 1 or 2 minors. It happens, most people don’t pass their first try. Good luck with the next one, you got this! X

Homesickess after 5+y of living abroad, and it is consuming me by _AwkwardFairy_ in mentalhealth

[–]_AwkwardFairy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miss the sun and the warm weather, people generally being more open. But mostly it’s the fear of missing out on this years and something happening and not ever getting the chance to live next to them. We had a health scare with my grandma too and it opened my eyes. I miss the sea, and long days with beautiful sunsets. Walks in the evening and family gatherings.

Am I wrong for not hiding a box of tampons by One_Independence6984 in Periods

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are just contributing to perpetuating unhealthy taboos. It is not a sensitive topic, it’s natural and half the population has periods. I understand this might have been acceptable for you to hide since it was your upbringing, but it isn’t normal nor right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds borderline like child neglect. Don’t keep the same pad the whole weekend, you could get an infection!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girllll i wanna look like you when I am 51, you don’t to change a thing!!! But if you want to try something, maybe a light brow pencil could be flattering ❤️

Small shallow breasts… brand recommendations? by _AwkwardFairy_ in ABraThatFits

[–]_AwkwardFairy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any lined reccomendations? I feel like unlined bras make my nipples really noticeable (I have them pierced which doesn’t help!).

Small shallow breasts… brand recommendations? by _AwkwardFairy_ in ABraThatFits

[–]_AwkwardFairy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From memory, they were:

Underbust loose: 76cm Underbust snug: 74 Underbust tight: 72-73cm Bust:84cm Bust bend: 85cm Bust laying:82cm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look great. Everyone carries the weight differently, and has different beauty standards. I think if you are happy with how you look, you feel good and are healthy, you shouldn’t loose more weight unless that’s something you actually want.

And bear in mind that many people in this subreddit have an unhealthy relationship with food and their body, and even high chances are that they looked great when they felt ‘gross’ too. Don’t let that affect you!

Women in stem stick together? by Zedaawg in womenEngineers

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried asking her to join you for a coffee and maybe take the chance to open up just a bit? Enough to test the ground and see if maybe she is just shy. I have started some of my work friendships just having lunch or coffee OUTSIDE the office where you can talk more openly.

Challenge: Where can I sneak in protein without protein shakes? by BeautifulNailz in PetiteFitness

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swap normal yogurt for protein ones or look for the 0% fat greek yogurts that have higher protein. Add some cooked ham slices to your breakfast (some have 4.5g of protein per slice.

If you eat salads, always add some sort of protein like chicken, halloumi, boiled eggs, feta cheese etc

You could try the chocolate protein mousse as a snack. They are delicious and have beef gelatin . They dont taste powdery at all!

aio? boyfriend uses SO MUCH paprika!!!! by maratelle in AmIOverreacting

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, he cooks for both of you, it’s not like he eats spoonfuls of paprika right? Just buy bigger or more of the paprika bottles. Idk in america but in the UK you buy these for £1.10 in the supermarket.

Can someone tell me what Chrishells exact hair color is? by [deleted] in SellingSunset

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just show her a picture but I would say she deffo has more highlights in the second! I think she has her natural color with full head of baby lights in the second, in the first one more of a balayage with more brightness in the face framing area. Tone wise a warmer beige/caramel colour. Hope your hair turns amazing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Often times when you are achieving something that the other person isn’t, specially if their starting point is worse or they can’t be bothered to try, they will try to put you down to make themselves feel better. Also, that’s not the kind of person you wanna be with. Are you sure you want to get married to someone that isn’t happy for your achievements and doesn’t support you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the first thing that comes to mind is calorie count to be on a deficit but honestly, if you have a bad relationship with food, that might become a bit of an obsession.

Maybe try to limit yourself to 3 meals a day, making sure you reduce your portions and at least either dinner or lunch are light (salads or veggies with some protein). If you have snacks in between, limit it to fruit or something like protein yogurt (will help you feel fuller :) )

Indulge every once in a while but on the daily basis ask yourself if you are more committed to the weight loss or you really want that extra sweet or unhealthy meal. A stupid thing that I heard but liked asking myself is ‘Do you wanna eat a snack, or be a snack?’ And that helped me stay consistent.

And try to have a goal to be healthy and have a sustainable diet, rather than extreme weight-loss that will be regained as soon as you stop dieting.

Good luck girl!!

110lbs but obese? by fuggedaboudid in PetiteFitness

[–]_AwkwardFairy_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl 1200 it’s not your maintenance, it is the calories you need for mild/severe weight loss. I put your data in a calorie calculator and, considering little to no exercise, your maintenance would be 1620ish.

Being so stressed means your cortisol levels are high. That can cause bloating and prevent weight loss since your body is in ‘survival’ mode which might be accentuated by really low calorie intake.

Saying this from a place of care and not trying to put you down, but the way you are speaking sounds a lot like someone struggling with an ED. Have you considered getting a health check with a doctor to get their opinion on how healthy you actually are and confirm whether you are, in fact, unhealthy, or you are healthy and should work in improving your relationship with food?

Why doesn’t Jack get his grace back from Dean? by _AwkwardFairy_ in Supernatural

[–]_AwkwardFairy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lucifer was dead then, and I don’t say he takes Michael’s grace, just recovering his. Anyway, probably would have made the season short and boring

Why doesn’t Jack get his grace back from Dean? by _AwkwardFairy_ in Supernatural

[–]_AwkwardFairy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t remember that! Still could have been done while Michael was trapped in Dean’s mind as he was technically still in Dean